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Old 08-05-2019, 09:29 AM
 
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to him you're a piece of meat he can use on the side for sex or to bolster his ego.

he's a drug dealer? he probably was trading drugs for sexual favors from numerous women. Only difference between them and you is that you were giving it up for free.
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:07 AM
 
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If a person uses the term "my narcissist", does that mean that person is a narcissist?
I didn't think of that! Maybe I'm an under cover narrcisst myself 😊.
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:09 AM
 
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to him you're a piece of meat he can use on the side for sex or to bolster his ego.

he's a drug dealer? he probably was trading drugs for sexual favors from numerous women. Only difference between them and you is that you were giving it up for free.
Perhaps as I'm not a prostitute or a drug addict 😕
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:13 AM
 
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To all I can imagine many reasons he kept me a secret. I just framed my question around my experience. I know he was using me. I was just more curious about the behavior of a narcissist such as the guy I encountered. Maybe I should have asked the question generally.
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Northern Virginia
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To all I can imagine many reasons he kept me a secret. I just framed my question around my experience. I know he was using me. I was just more curious about the behavior of a narcissist such as the guy I encountered. Maybe I should have asked the question generally.
Or in the psychology subforum. There are likely tons of threads about narcissism.
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:27 AM
 
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Lesson 1, "New" original poster, don't ever be around a narcissist, They suck! Anyone who's ever worked with, had a relationship with, or befriended one will tell you.

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Old 08-05-2019, 10:38 AM
 
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Or in the psychology subforum. There are likely tons of threads about narcissism.
I didn't realize there was a psych forum. I'll see if I can move my post or add it there?? Thanks
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Old 08-05-2019, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I was just more curious about the behavior of a narcissist such as the guy I encountered.
Why are you spending any emotional energy on this sick person? Mere interest or educating yourself for self-preservation would not take much time. It seems like more than curiosity. Have you by chance developed a fascination?
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Old 08-05-2019, 11:41 PM
 
Location: occupied east coast
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Why would a narcissist keep you a secret....

Because it make it that much more difficult to go out on "the hunt" for a new supply.

You see a narcissist is always on "the hunt".... It's like a hunger that can not be satisfied.

My gal, had us stacked three deep.Quick insight into their thinking....

Everything mine did was compartmentalized..... There was a Bar not from her house... several times, I suggested stopping there rather than traveling further...

"No... no not there, I don't like that place".

Well, after things "blew up" I learned that that is where she was meeting my replacement.

I was not allowed there... He was not allowed to where I would go with her...

Neither of us knew that there was another place where she was working the third guy.

Truth be told...... Narcissist live in a very dark and corrupt world.
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Old Today, 11:00 AM
 
Location: PA
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Why waste time trying to put a label on it or figure out why or how? What matters is the unacceptable behavior. Good on you for getting rid of him and put this dude farther and farther in your rear view mirror until he disappears.
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