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Old Today, 06:58 AM
 
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So, specific examples would be appreciated. From anyone reading this. The floor is open.
If she allows you to stick your tongue in her mouth without the next morning telling her friends that she was 'too drunk' then that is a sign that she has romantic interest in you.

If she lets you stick your penis her vagina, that is an ever better sign that she has romantic interest in you. That one is pretty gold in my experience.
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Old Today, 07:03 AM
 
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I think he's saying, play the numbers game and be up front with what you're looking for.
Be upfront that you want sex from a woman?

Newsflash.

Most men want sex from MOST women.
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Be upfront that you want sex from a woman?

Newsflash.

Most men want sex from MOST women.
This is a popular malfunction, assuming that what one wants EVERYONE wants. Pro tip: Many men DON'T want indiscriminate sex with "most" women.
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Old Today, 07:20 AM
 
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This is a popular malfunction, assuming that what one wants EVERYONE wants. Pro tip: Many men DON'T want indiscriminate sex with "most" women.
And a lot do.

What's your point?
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Old Today, 07:21 AM
 
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And a lot do.

What's your point?
Your advice is not very good by assuming that others share your views.
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Old Today, 07:29 AM
 
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Your advice is not very good by assuming that others share your views.
Are you here to make a point regarding attracting women, or just to try and cut me down?
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Old Today, 07:34 AM
 
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Are you here to make a point regarding attracting women, or just to try and cut me down?
I am trying to respond to the vein of the thread. Which I started. About ... what one might do right. And what one might do wrong.
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Old Today, 07:45 AM
 
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Yeah when a woman sees you as a friend chances she ever sees you in a romantic light is slim to none.

Attraction is either there or isn’t it a woman doesnt show romantic interest soon then it’s not gonna happen.
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RE: out of her way, you'll know it when you see it. If you have to ask, you haven't seen a girl show interest in you.

RE: jumping to conclusion meaning not getting handsey and making her uncomfortable without knowing or asking her out directly.

RE: doing things that many women are attracted to. up to you

RE: it's a stereotype and a joke. My point stands. The average woman finds the majority of guys unattractive. If you fall into this category, then it is what it is. Either do what you can to be more attractive or DGAF and forget about the relationship. Life is strange though, it may come when you least expect it.
I will say that as women get older, there's a better chance that they'll make decisions based on an overall assessment of a person, and not just physical and emotional stimuli over a short period of time.

And I think this is true for men as well.

I know a guy and a gal from college and I distinctly remember him telling me that she was not attractive. They're married now and they have a kid. And he was one of the best looking guys I knew. Still to this day. One of those guys most women found attractive and would say it.

I do think the rules 'change a little' when you cross over that 40ish barrier. Of course, by that point, almost everybody is married with kids, so ...
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Old Today, 07:54 AM
 
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I am trying to respond to the vein of the thread. Which I started. About ... what one might do right. And what one might do wrong.
If women want men who are extremely picky about who they are physically attracted to, those men do exist, yes. Typically, they are the very good looking guys.

But a lot of men are physically attracted to a wide range of women. If women want to make that one of their cutoffs, that's up to them.

Seems pretty arbitrary to me.
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Now, I'm not saying that I think I need muscles. I'm well aware that those women clearly had a thing for guys with muscle definition, but that the concept could also be sound and be applied to women who are attracted to other things. Meaning...does attraction grow in a woman the more she gets to know a guy and sees his potentially initially overlooked attractive points. But, to that...I've never grown on a woman. (Mind out of the gutter, please.) So, my experiences have led me to believe that, for maybe guys like me at least, interest is immediately and irrevocably binary...either
If you became a gym rat and got yourself some tone and a flatter stomach, since youre tall, then wore clothes to show that off, the women would make sure you noticed them. At that point you can quickly try out everything you read about how to keep a woman attracted. You get some tone and it wouldnt matter what your hobbies were.

But you have to put in the work.
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