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Old Today, 12:12 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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This.

Of all the acting jobs in the world, they just happened to have an "emergency" need for a rapist? I mean after all your posts about fantasies & your own movie with rape...what a coincidence.

After all your GF has been through, no way in hell would you be in that scene. Not a chance.
Iím thinking itís some really low budget stag film. No way this film would Netflix or Hulu. So who would watch it? Lol
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Old Today, 04:24 AM
 
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This.

Of all the acting jobs in the world, they just happened to have an "emergency" need for a rapist? I mean after all your posts about fantasies & your own movie with rape...what a coincidence.
Well the director did read my script a few months ago, so maybe it's not a coincidence then hmm... But lots of movies do have that crime in though... But I don't have fantasies about it, it's just a screenplay. Whatever happened to the notion that "it's just a movie"?

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I’m thinking it’s some really low budget stag film. No way this film would Netflix or Hulu. So who would watch it? Lol
It was for a short film, not a feature you would find on Netflix.

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We made multi suggestions, take her to set, etc. again is the actress naked in the scene, are you, do you have to touch the actress?
Well I can remember that for it happens again, take her to set and all. Neither me or the actress were naked during. I only had to touch her arms with my hands, and my body was pressed up against hers but we both had clothes on. It was all shot from the chest up with clothes.

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Old Today, 07:09 AM
 
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Neither me or the actress were naked during. I only had to touch her arms with my hands, and my body was pressed up against hers but we both had clothes on. It was all shot from the chest up with clothes.
Ok, this doesn't seem like such a big deal. You should have mentioned this at the beginning of the thread.

Is your girlfriend aware that both you and the actress are wearing clothes? Or is the problem that it involves rape?
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Old Today, 07:26 AM
 
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Oh yeah, we talked about it and she said it was awkward for her to and we went over boundaries and how it should be done and all, if that's what you mean. I can't remember if she had a husband though or if she was single.



What would watching non-sex scenes do?
I am talking about your girlfriend and the actress meet and talk.
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Old Today, 07:52 AM
 
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I’m thinking it’s some really low budget stag film. No way this film would Netflix or Hulu. So who would watch it? Lol
It's not a porn film, he specifically stated it wasn't. OP may not have a career in movies, but he has had odd jobs on movie sets doing a variety of things and he does have people in his circle who are into filmmaking. I'm sure they are very low budget movies, but they aren't porn.
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Old Today, 07:55 AM
 
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Well the director did read my script a few months ago, so maybe it's not a coincidence then hmm... But lots of movies do have that crime in though... But I don't have fantasies about it, it's just a screenplay. Whatever happened to the notion that "it's just a movie"?



It was for a short film, not a feature you would find on Netflix.



Well I can remember that for it happens again, take her to set and all. Neither me or the actress were naked during. I only had to touch her arms with my hands, and my body was pressed up against hers but we both had clothes on. It was all shot from the chest up with clothes.
I don't think you did anything wrong. I think your gf's jealousy is natural, not unlike my jealousy when my ex-bf had to shoot with models. Just reassure her she's more attractive to you than that actress and that you were thinking about her the whole time.
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Old Today, 08:01 AM
 
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Of course! Everyone here knows that, except OP.
Not everyone agrees. I personally think you guys are bullying him for no reason. People are going to tell a person with a disability, who collects disability but gets jobs through an agency that deals with employing the disabled, that he can't hold a job because he's incompetent??? Would you say that to someone with a developmental disability?

Autism does not look like other disorders. You treat OP like he ought to think and behave like a person who does not have a pretty severe disability (he's collected disability his whole life I believe) because he is obviously intelligent, but he doesn't think like you or me and he can't explain things as well.

If I wrote only 10 posts about my fiance, and they were all only about disagreements we've had, it would collectively look like a pretty awful relationship, but it's not at all. I feel like people misunderstood OP from that one thread and now follow him around telling him how incompetent and perverted he is. It's disgusting.
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Old Today, 08:10 AM
 
Location: new to the BA & l o v e it
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I've taken acting jobs, once in a while cause I am trying to get into the filmmaking scene more. One filmmaker I worked with before needed an actor that involved a sex scene in a movie. It was actually a rape scene. So I did, cause she helped me out on projects in the past, so why not help her.

But it bothered by gf that I did that with another actress in a shoot.

I have another project coming up where I am playing a part where I have to something similar, but she is also bothered by this, and seems to think i am up to something.

It's just acting, and I'm trying to get onto projects, nothing more to be analyzed. Is there a way I can make her see that, cause I think after I do it, she is just going to be more bothered by it.
If she is not comfy & it really bothers her.......then nothing either 1 of you can do except she needs to find a relationship which makes her feel more comfortable!!!
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Old Today, 04:10 PM
 
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Not everyone agrees. I personally think you guys are bullying him for no reason. People are going to tell a person with a disability, who collects disability but gets jobs through an agency that deals with employing the disabled, that he can't hold a job because he's incompetent??? Would you say that to someone with a developmental disability?

Autism does not look like other disorders. You treat OP like he ought to think and behave like a person who does not have a pretty severe disability (he's collected disability his whole life I believe) because he is obviously intelligent, but he doesn't think like you or me and he can't explain things as well.

If I wrote only 10 posts about my fiance, and they were all only about disagreements we've had, it would collectively look like a pretty awful relationship, but it's not at all. I feel like people misunderstood OP from that one thread and now follow him around telling him how incompetent and perverted he is. It's disgusting.
A person with a "pretty severe disability" should not be acting in rape scenes.
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Old Today, 04:48 PM
 
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I didn't want to be forced to pick one over the other.
That's not real life. If you don't proactively choose, the choice will eventually be made for you.
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