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Old 08-11-2019, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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I've taken some acting jobs to get on set and gain experience. I didn't want to at first but one filmmaker wanted me to ask cause he needed a part and liked my look, and then other filmmakers who know that one, have been asking me to fill other parts lately. So I've been doing it to get on sets.
Ok, so it’s not your main profession, but it’s still a professional environment. Either you find a way to make that clear, or you have to decide if a side gig is more important than a girl who you obviously care about enough to be bothered by her feelings about this.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:17 PM
 
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Oh well I just thought she was making a it out to be a bigger deal than it is, and just wanted to re-assure her. I didn't want to be forced to pick one over the other.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I didn't want to be forced to pick one over the other.
... because you clearly would pick "filmmaking" over your trusted and loving GF.
You are just forgetting that after 5 years of trying, you didn't go far with it, yet. Still on page 6 with your script. And still a million basic questions in your head.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:25 PM
 
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What do you mean still on page 6. The entire script is written, I just posted 6 pages before. But why do I have to choose one over the other? Why can't a gf accept her bf's career choice?
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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What do you mean still on page 6. The entire script is written, I just posted 6 pages before. But why do I have to choose one over the other? Why can't a gf accept her bf's career choice?
Sometimes it comes to that, whether or not you want it to.

Again, I don’t know your relationship, but it doesn’t sound like you have options.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I didn't want to be forced to pick one over the other.
You never do. Yet most times you choose "the other" and not her.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:28 PM
 
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OP, my opinion is that you are making some serious mistakes.

A couple weeks ago you were contemplating picking up and moving to Vancouver without even telling your girlfriend.

Last week you were telling us that you couldn't find time to have sex with her, yet you had no problem finding time to masturbate daily.

And now you're telling us that you're involved with what sounds like low budget pornographic movies where you're violently engaging in intercourse with another woman.

Dude, read what I just wrote. And you wonder why your girlfriend is upset?

Frankly, I really don't understand why she hasn't dumped you. You are treating her like garbage.
Thanks for the history lesson.

I can now quit reading after your post( #9 )as I know the type of OP we are dealing with here.

He has way more serious problems than his girlfriend's attitude....IMHO
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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What do you mean still on page 6. The entire script is written, I just posted 6 pages before. But why do I have to choose one over the other? Why can't a gf accept her bf's career choice?
1. How are my first 6 rough pages?

2. Because she is smart enough to know that you live in fantasy land.
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:36 PM
 
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Why am I living in a fantasy land?
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Old 08-11-2019, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Why am I living in a fantasy land?
I doubt you would understand but simply said: your successful career in filmmaking is a fantasy.
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