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Old 08-08-2019, 09:10 PM
 
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I've taken acting jobs, once in a while cause I am trying to get into the filmmaking scene more. One filmmaker I worked with before needed an actor that involved a sex scene in a movie. It was actually a rape scene. So I did, cause she helped me out on projects in the past, so why not help her.

But it bothered by gf that I did that with another actress in a shoot.

I have another project coming up where I am playing a part where I have to something similar, but she is also bothered by this, and seems to think i am up to something.

It's just acting, and I'm trying to get onto projects, nothing more to be analyzed. Is there a way I can make her see that, cause I think after I do it, she is just going to be more bothered by it.

Moderator comment: Tread lightly, people. There's no need to discuss the details of the scenes shot, so don't ask. Stay on topic, please. Thanks!

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Old 08-08-2019, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Texas
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But it bothered by gf that I did that with another actress in a shoot.![/color]
Is it up to her to write the scripts for the films you are in? She sounds jealous and controlling.
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Old 08-08-2019, 09:31 PM
 
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There's obviously a market for what you're doing, or you wouldn't be encouraged to pursue it. Are you getting paid in some monetary way? Maybe buy her something if she's materialistic and tell her it's all part of your path to success in your career.
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Old 08-08-2019, 10:15 PM
 
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Oh I don't think she's materialistic at all, she just worries I think that something will happen.
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Old 08-08-2019, 10:40 PM
 
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Well mod deflated fun out of this thread before it even got started.
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Old Yesterday, 01:03 AM
 
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Oh I don't think she's materialistic at all, she just worries I think that something will happen.
Maybe the underlying issue is that she worries you can't keep yourself under control. Stay detached. That you won't be able to treat the actress performing the scene with you like a business partner instead of a romantic one. Suggests lack of trust and insecurity. Does she show you she doesn't trust you in other ways? You do seem to have a lot of sex-related problems with this girlfriend.
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Old Yesterday, 01:56 AM
 
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You'd probably find most gf's would have a problem with if it really, if it was them, truth be known. l mean would you like your gf romping around with some actor.
l'd be pretty sure because l was a painter for a lot of years and l painted a lot of nudes. But even my models use to ask about my wife and were always surprised she was fine with it.
So were friends and even some galleries when they found out you were married.
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Old Yesterday, 02:11 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Is she bothered by the scene because it depicts rape or because it depicts sex? Did you talk to her about it prior to taking the job?
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Old Yesterday, 03:48 AM
 
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OP, my opinion is that you are making some serious mistakes.

A couple weeks ago you were contemplating picking up and moving to Vancouver without even telling your girlfriend.

Last week you were telling us that you couldn't find time to have sex with her, yet you had no problem finding time to masturbate daily.

And now you're telling us that you're involved with what sounds like low budget pornographic movies where you're violently engaging in intercourse with another woman.

Dude, read what I just wrote. And you wonder why your girlfriend is upset?

Frankly, I really don't understand why she hasn't dumped you. You are treating her like garbage.
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Old Yesterday, 03:50 AM
 
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Nevermind....

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