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Old 08-10-2019, 02:32 PM
 
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Could be spiteful thing. Maybe he dumped her or did something bad to her back in HS and she wishes him ill will.

But, we (CDF) won't know anything until he asks her about why she unfriended him.
Hopefully the original poster updates us.
No they never dated. He is a good fella. Nobody that knew him ever had anything bad to say about him. Not even her or myself.
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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I agree with you OP it is not normal to be searching for someone like that for months on end through various websites. I want to know what the other theories are if it's not a crush. And it could well just be a crush, but a protracted one.
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:35 PM
 
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I agree with you OP it is not normal to be searching for someone like that for months on end through various websites. I want to know what the other theories are if it's not a crush. And it could well just be a crush, but a protracted one.

Maybe the original poster wants to find a swinging, swapping couple for herself and her husband!
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:38 PM
 
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Also, sorry to dominate your thread. I am thinking out loud, but if she had a grudge against this guy, would she be looking at him so frequently? I mean, I have had the odd grudge but not the kind that I actively nurse on a daily basis through various websites...that seems like taking it too far.
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:39 PM
 
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The only time I've done a search as obsessive as that is when I've had a serious crush/been in love with someone.

You could ask her why she booted you off her Facebook
Seems like a crush to me. Maybe she wanted to friend him and need me out of the way so I wont know. You cannot see who is on her friends list if you are not a FB friend.
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:40 PM
 
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OP what about his wife? Did she go to high school with you too?
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:42 PM
 
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Seems like a crush to me. Maybe she wanted to friend him and need me out of the way so I wont know. You cannot see who is on her friends list if you are not a FB friend.
Have you suspected/seen any other signs that she could be cheating with this person or is it just the internet searches?
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:43 PM
 
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Seems like a crush to me. Maybe she wanted to friend him and need me out of the way so I wont know. You cannot see who is on her friends list if you are not a FB friend.
She also could have made it so only you cant see her friends list, while keeping you a friend.
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:48 PM
 
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I knew a woman who was partnered up but obsessed with someone else and was cyber stalking him. In the end she was diagnosed with a delusional disorder (erotomania.)

This could very well be a romantic obsession. Unless your wife has been moonlighting as a PI, why would she be searching for months? Any other theories?
I can only say that she probably met up with him at some point.. Think about it! Why would you obsessively search for a guy for months on his FB and not developing some type of feelings for him? If I were searching for a female friend I admire I would be obsessively searching for her as well
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Old 08-10-2019, 02:51 PM
 
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Also, sorry to dominate your thread. I am thinking out loud, but if she had a grudge against this guy, would she be looking at him so frequently? I mean, I have had the odd grudge but not the kind that I actively nurse on a daily basis through various websites...that seems like taking it too far.
Exactly. Who would be obsessively stalking a person for a grudge?
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