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Old Today, 01:11 PM
 
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I dont know what to make of it whether it's harmless or something else is going on. We both share one laptop. So she went to sleep for the night and I went on the laptop. So I opened the screen and she forgot to log out of Facebook. So I went snooping through her searches and this guy's name kept popping up. I am familiar with him because we all went to high school together. They never dated before. But she has been searching his name(and his wife's) for months. Google, Facebook, LinkedIn etc. She does not have him as a friend on Facebook but she is totally obsessed with searching this fella. Now I noticed that she has deleted me off her FB friends for no reason. I'm curious to know what is going on? Is it just harmless or maybe a possible affair is brewing?
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Old Today, 01:31 PM
 
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Oh dear. I have to say, that does not look good. Why would she delete you off Facebook if nothing is going on? Have you talked to her about it?
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Old Today, 02:00 PM
 
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When I go to Facebook it opens on the last page that I viewed —over and over and over again— every time I open it, it’s that same last page. It might look like I view this person every time, but that’s not my intention. Maybe that’s what’s happening here, and she’s not actually trying to look at his page.

You better not ask her though, or you may find out.
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Old Today, 02:07 PM
 
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Oh dear. I have to say, that does not look good. Why would she delete you off Facebook if nothing is going on? Have you talked to her about it?
I was wondering the same thing. I dont recall doing anything improper. I just noticed that she deleted me off Facebook. I havent confronted her as yet. But it's strange as to why her regular FB friends still there and I'm not.
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Old Today, 02:14 PM
 
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What is his page activity? Maybe she is simply entertained by the memes he posts. It could mean nothing. If anyone snooped in my fb search history Im sure it would look odd, without context. But its not odd if you know the context. There is a very simple explanation if one doesnt jump to conclusions.
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Old Today, 02:15 PM
 
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When I go to Facebook it opens on the last page that I viewed —over and over and over again— every time I open it, it’s that same last page. It might look like I view this person every time, but that’s not my intention. Maybe that’s what’s happening here, and she’s not actually trying to look at his page.

You better not ask her though, or you may find out.
Doesnt look that way. It seems that she kept clicking on his name. If she searches facebook for something then she searches his name as well. Not just his name but his wife as well. Thats a little odd to me. It's like why are you searching his wife for?Then she is searching him through Google and LinkedIn. It's like every single day she has been keeping him in her searches.
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Old Today, 02:20 PM
 
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Doesnt look that way. It seems that she kept clicking on his name. If she searches facebook for something then she searches his name as well. Not just his name but his wife as well. Thats a little odd to me. It's like why are you searching his wife for?Then she is searching him through Google and LinkedIn. It's like every single day she has been keeping him in her searches.
Wait till she sees your history when you forget to delete it. Lol

Let her be. Just do your job in being a good man and she won’t be going anywhere.
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Old Today, 02:21 PM
 
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Doesnt look that way. It seems that she kept clicking on his name. If she searches facebook for something then she searches his name as well. Not just his name but his wife as well. Thats a little odd to me. It's like why are you searching his wife for?Then she is searching him through Google and LinkedIn. It's like every single day she has been keeping him in her searches.
Maybe she hates him, maybe he did something stupid and she just likes to look at his face and wonder why that lady is married to him?
It really doesn’t mean anything.
She unfriended you because she suspects you of spying on her maybe. Sometimes people just like to have a little privacy, and not have to explain everything they do. (You checked allll of her search history?)
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Old Today, 02:21 PM
 
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Did you happen to look at her DMs too? Are they communicating?
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Old Today, 02:22 PM
 
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Could be spiteful thing. Maybe he dumped her or did something bad to her back in HS and she wishes him ill will.

But, we (CDF) won't know anything until he asks her about why she unfriended him.
Hopefully the original poster updates us.
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