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Old 08-11-2019, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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I'm mid 30s and have dated men 5-10 years younger than me. Online dating. Yoga class? but not with the express intent to hit on people, only if you don't mind yoga. You could learn to dance something like salsa or tango.
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Old 08-11-2019, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Divorce bars.
yes.
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Old 08-11-2019, 11:43 AM
 
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Old 08-11-2019, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I personally never dated younger men because they often had financial issues and were looking for an older woman with a house or some other means of support.
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Old 08-11-2019, 01:31 PM
 
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I personally never dated younger men because they often had financial issues and were looking for an older woman with a house or some other means of support.
Truth. I work with a man who is 9 years younger than me. He's separated from his wife. She left him, but she has since been diagnosed with cancer so they're staying married so she can remain on his healthcare.

He's repeatedly said he's looking for a sugar momma. Someone to financially take care of him and his sons.
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Old 08-11-2019, 04:11 PM
 
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I think there can also be a sexual connection between older women and younger men. Im 41 but have been in relationships with men much older than me (when in my early 20s) and much younger. Down to about 23 years old (when I was early 30s). My personal preference is guys 2 years older than me, because we seemed to be on the same page and have the best companionship as far as hanging out, doing couple stuff, etc.

With the younger guys it was usually just physical. They are in shape, etc. its the typical boy toy thing.

No way would I be a sugar mama though. In my 30s I lived in a gorgeous house, had a well paying job, and yes the 22-28 year olds came out of the woodwork wanting to move in. No way though.

Maybe that was their main motive. I think they wanted to be taken care of, not much different from younger women who are with older well off men, right?

I did hear of women who enjoyed this arrangement. I mean these young guys can bring some talent, I wont judge anyone. If I were looking for an actual partner though he'd probably be about 2 years older than me.
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Old 08-11-2019, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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I have to say the younger men I've dated seemed to want someone to mother them somewhat. I like spoiling people so I was up for it but I'm not sure how healthy it was.
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Old 08-11-2019, 06:12 PM
 
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Go for a woman who is your same age but is outside of your race instead.
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Old 08-11-2019, 06:16 PM
 
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He's repeatedly said he's looking for a sugar momma. Someone to financially take care of him and his sons.

They have no shame when they go around saying this. Call him a Golddigger like they do women to say the same.
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Old 08-11-2019, 06:32 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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Older women and younger men question
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