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Old Yesterday, 03:06 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Rowan123 View Post
You just encouraged her. She doesn't need to save the photos or look at them again. She needs to move on and having those photographs won't help that it well only feed her obsession.
Better she have the images than creeping around his neighborhood with binoculars.

 
Old Yesterday, 03:31 PM
 
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this is from the server in my bedroom:
Quote:
[stanley-88888888@hyper ~]$ sudo tail /var/log/httpd/access_log
216.244.66.250 - - [12/Aug/2019:13:33:15 -0400] "GET /robots.txt HTTP/1.1" 404 208 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; DotBot/1.1; http://www.opensiteexplorer.org/dotbot, help@moz.com)"
92.118.160.53 - - [12/Aug/2019:14:22:55 -0400] "GET / HTTP/1.0" 200 2919 "-" "NetSystemsResearch studies the availability of various services across the internet. Our website is netsystemsresearch.com"
216.244.66.250 - - [12/Aug/2019:14:25:55 -0400] "GET /robots.txt HTTP/1.1" 404 208 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; DotBot/1.1; http://www.opensiteexplorer.org/dotbot, help@moz.com)"
157.55.39.33 - - [12/Aug/2019:15:21:35 -0400] "GET /robots.txt HTTP/1.1" 404 208 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; bingbot/2.0; +http://www.bing.com/bingbot.htm)"
207.46.13.173 - - [12/Aug/2019:15:21:41 -0400] "GET / HTTP/1.1" 200 2919 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; bingbot/2.0; +http://www.bing.com/bingbot.htm)"
216.244.66.250 - - [12/Aug/2019:16:11:09 -0400] "GET /robots.txt HTTP/1.1" 404 208 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; DotBot/1.1; http://www.opensiteexplorer.org/dotbot, help@moz.com)"
198.199.76.179 - - [12/Aug/2019:16:30:40 -0400] "GET / HTTP/1.0" 200 2919 "-" "masscan/1.0 (https://github.com/robertdavidgraham/masscan)"
177.185.159.103 - - [12/Aug/2019:16:38:05 -0400] "GET / HTTP/1.1" 200 2919 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; WOW64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/52.0.2743.116 Safari/537.36"
54.183.188.33 - - [12/Aug/2019:16:50:56 -0400] "GET / HTTP/1.1" 200 2919 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; Intel Mac OS X 10_11_5) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/50.0.2661.102 Safari/537.36"
216.244.66.250 - - [12/Aug/2019:17:03:59 -0400] "GET /robots.txt HTTP/1.1" 404 208 "-" "Mozilla/5.0 (compatible; DotBot/1.1; http://www.opensiteexplorer.org/dotbot, help@moz.com)"
[stanley-88888888@hyper ~]$ traceroute 216.244.66.250
traceroute to 216.244.66.250 (216.244.66.250), 30 hops max, 60 byte packets
1 gateway (192.168.1.1) 0.684 ms 0.457 ms 0.525 ms
2 96.120.75.29 (96.120.75.29) 11.495 ms 16.139 ms 16.150 ms
3 68.85.77.205 (68.85.77.205) 17.042 ms 17.057 ms 16.954 ms
4 68.86.209.133 (68.86.209.133) 16.223 ms 16.232 ms 16.458 ms
5 be-101-ar03.plainfield.nj.panjde.comcast.net (96.108.49.105) 20.215 ms 19.771 ms 19.784 ms
6 be-33659-cr01.newark.nj.ibone.comcast.net (68.86.90.21) 22.091 ms 18.162 ms 20.699 ms
7 be-10203-cr02.newyork.ny.ibone.comcast.net (68.86.85.186) 21.658 ms 17.652 ms 17.399 ms
8 be-10390-pe03.111eighthave.ny.ibone.comcast.net (68.86.83.90) 16.971 ms 22.551 ms 21.968 ms
9 be7922.ccr31.jfk10.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.13.161) 22.327 ms 22.359 ms 21.641 ms
10 be3496.ccr42.jfk02.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.0.141) 22.465 ms be3495.ccr41.jfk02.atlas.cogentco.com (66.28.4.181) 22.160 ms be3496.ccr42.jfk02.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.0.141) 21.861 ms
11 be2889.ccr21.cle04.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.47.49) 37.564 ms be2890.ccr22.cle04.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.82.245) 37.196 ms 33.494 ms
12 be2717.ccr41.ord01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.6.221) 33.508 ms be2718.ccr42.ord01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.7.129) 38.196 ms be2717.ccr41.ord01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.6.221) 35.537 ms
13 be2831.ccr21.mci01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.42.165) 54.550 ms be2832.ccr22.mci01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.44.169) 54.228 ms 52.427 ms
14 be3035.ccr21.den01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.5.89) 58.211 ms be3036.ccr22.den01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.31.89) 57.361 ms be3035.ccr21.den01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.5.89) 63.943 ms
15 be3038.ccr32.slc01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.42.97) 73.833 ms be3037.ccr21.slc01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.41.145) 74.005 ms be3038.ccr32.slc01.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.42.97) 73.776 ms
16 be3284.ccr22.sea02.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.44.73) 90.579 ms be2085.ccr21.sea02.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.2.197) 90.694 ms 154.54.89.101 (154.54.89.101) 90.688 ms
17 be3321.rcr21.sea03.atlas.cogentco.com (154.54.42.206) 85.549 ms 86.213 ms 91.955 ms
18 be2122.nr51.b003148-2.sea03.atlas.cogentco.com (154.24.63.122) 90.828 ms 90.036 ms 89.745 ms
19 38.122.91.186 (38.122.91.186) 85.249 ms 102.622 ms 102.610 ms
20 ae3-0.br3.igw.sea.wowrack.net (216.244.88.171) 89.342 ms 90.077 ms 89.314 ms
21 po6-br1-igw1-sea.wowrack.net (216.244.88.163) 89.401 ms 89.543 ms 89.090 ms
22 216-244-66-2.reverse.wowrack.com (216.244.66.2) 89.417 ms 85.200 ms 89.934 ms
23 216.244.66.250 (216.244.66.250) 89.982 ms 89.340 ms 89.133 ms
 
Old Yesterday, 03:53 PM
 
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Quote:
Originally Posted by redplum33 View Post
Better she have the images than creeping around his neighborhood with binoculars.
She said she wasn't going to do anything else. Having saved images won't help her get over him.
 
Old Yesterday, 04:19 PM
 
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Originally Posted by stanley-88888888 View Post
this is from the server in my bedroom:
I have no idea what any of that means.
 
Old Yesterday, 04:47 PM
 
Location: PA
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Depending on the network, yes, his IT dept could tell every IP and related MAC addess (identifier of your phone or PC) but he would have to know the MAC address f your phone or PC.
 
Old Yesterday, 04:55 PM
 
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No they would have no idea it's you. I think if the police got involved, there might be a way for them to track your IP address and locate you if you are viewing the page from one location, but without that involvement from someone more specialised than your average IT person, I'm not sure they could know. If he has his own page on that website, they can see how many views that page has had and possibly if those views have come from one user in particular, but they won't know who the user is. (This is assuming they use Google analytics).
They could easily know it's her without police or ISP involvement. All that is necessary to get her IP is to look at any email she has ever sent to her ex. It is in the headers. And then look at the website's visitor log to see if it matches up.

But I can't imagine why anyone would do this. Even if she's stalking him, why would anyone care if she goes to their company website?
 
Old Yesterday, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Rowan123 View Post
You just encouraged her. She doesn't need to save the photos or look at them again. She needs to move on and having those photographs won't help that it well only feed her obsession.
Wait til this poor guy starts seeing someone seriously. My dear god.
 
Old Yesterday, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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It could very well be that he requested that his pictures be removed from the company website, given the situation.

He could have been advised to do that by the police as well.
 
Old Yesterday, 05:11 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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How about you ask us for advice on how to get over him? There are a lot of threads here on heartbreak and unrequited love. Not everyone will be kind, but it might help for you to read it.
 
Old Yesterday, 05:26 PM
 
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It is easy for a website administrator to see how many hits a website page is getting. A relatively high number of hits over a short period of time could have triggered an investigation into the source of those visits, or could simply have raised a red flag. Who knows? Either he doesn't work there, or someone got wise to your obsession with his page on the site. Visiting the page twice a day is definitely a higher than average number of hits. They can also see how long you are staying on the page.

Surely his employer is aware of the restraining order since you showed up there. Are they also protected by the restraining order, or just him?

It is better for your mental health that his info has been scrubbed from the site.
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