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Old Today, 03:58 AM
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I'd assume she accidentally sent you a response meant for one of the other guys.

Met her online? There are other guys.
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Old Today, 04:11 AM
 
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I'd assume she accidentally sent you a response meant for one of the other guys.

Met her online? There are other guys.
NO! Say it ainít so BOB!

Who really knows what she is saying. If it isnít another guy then she is already coming acrossed as controlling and needy.

Time to cut her loose.
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Old Today, 05:32 AM
 
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Did you two have plans to actually meet at some point?
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Old Today, 05:57 AM
 
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Not a good reason to block. Just explain the situation like you did here.

If she gets all crazy after explaining then, yeah, block her.
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Old Today, 06:23 AM
 
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What do you hope to achieve? You don't need a "good reason" to communicate or not. But understanding what you are trying to achieve would be helpful.
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Old Today, 06:48 AM
 
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Isnít this what dating is for? Finding compatible communication styles is good, there may be some adjustments to be made.

I donít get the blocking part of your thoughts, is she harassing you and thatís the only way to control it?
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Old Today, 09:08 AM
 
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Probably she wants to talk more over the phone. You may give her benefit of doubt and clarify it once if you are interested, else leave it. I agree it's bit too early for her to set such expectations from you. Chances are she asked you that to check if you are really serious or not since with online dating some people just contact each other for time pass or are not interested in anything beyond texting, so she might have confused you with such guys.

I am a woman and have came across these guys who kept texting for 5 months and were not getting ready or had some or the other excuses when it was time for IRL meet. I came across another guy recently who came across as strong interested, called me almost everyday for initial 2 weeks and then his calls dropped to once or twice a week and that too 2-5mins calls. He canceled our meeting plans and I had to ask him the same question. But this was after 6th week when I asked him.

I came across few articles online where some people consider the term "needy" as bad, but for some other it says that the person is interested and hence wants to communicate more.
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Old Today, 09:23 AM
 
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Don't try to be clever here.

If you're even kind of into her, give her the benefit of the doubt that you would want from her, and just explain things. Tell her you were traveling and the texting flow might be off from what you had been doing but that you like chatting with her.

Or block her and be "that guy" in her past.
Oh, good grief! (I agree, BB) OP, just ask her if she got your texts for the last several days when you were out of town. You could even say, "I'm confused, too. I've been texting you every day while I was out of town, except Sunday. Did you get my texts?"

And leave it at that. Ball in her court. If she doesn't respond, let her go, move on.
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