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Old Yesterday, 08:26 PM
 
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We matched on Bumble a week ago and chatted on the phone twice. Since Thursday I been out and about celebrating my new job and went to atlantic city and NYC. I even text her pics of me in AC and NYC and we communicated yesterday and today through text. So the only day we didn't talk at all was Sunday. The last time we talked on the phone was wednesday but been in contact by text Fri, sat, mon and today.

I get a text from her saying......."I am confused about our friendship since we used to be in contact all the time and now we barely talk???? Should I hit the block button? lol I mean the fact that I text her while out of town and the last two days makes her seem kind of crazy when she says we haven't been contact.
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Old Yesterday, 08:32 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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It's not you - she confused you with another dude...
Nowadays people talk with multiple prospects at a time and its easy to get confused who is who.

Ask her how many times a day she expects you to contact her. With her demands and insecurities, she doesn't seem to be the right person to pursue anyway. Unless you want to deal with it in the future.
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Old Yesterday, 08:34 PM
 
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It's not you - she confused you with another dude...
That could be the case unless she means Phone contact.
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Old Yesterday, 08:35 PM
 
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Cease contact.

Your the plate she accidentally dropped.
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Old Yesterday, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Did you answer her?

Why not just explain before you immediately freak out and block her?

You can't read each others' minds, so don't punish her for having questions about where you're at.
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Old Yesterday, 08:49 PM
 
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Did you answer her?

Why not just explain before you immediately freak out and block her?

You can't read each others' minds, so don't punish her for having questions about where you're at.


I thought texting someone while you are at a casino is confirmation enough you are interested.
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Old Yesterday, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I thought texting someone while you are at a casino is confirmation enough you are interested.
Y'all are too early in this interaction for assumptions like that.
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Old Yesterday, 08:56 PM
 
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Y'all are too early in this interaction for assumptions like that.
Exactly
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Old Yesterday, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Exactly
Don't try to be clever here.

If you're even kind of into her, give her the benefit of the doubt that you would want from her, and just explain things. Tell her you were traveling and the texting flow might be off from what you had been doing but that you like chatting with her.

Or block her and be "that guy" in her past.
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Old Yesterday, 10:59 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Just move on, dude.
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