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Old 08-15-2019, 03:52 AM
 
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If he said, ‘Wanna go back to my place?” I bet he wouldn’t be able to finish that sentence without her standing by his car wagging her tail to get in.

 
Old 08-15-2019, 06:16 AM
 
Location: Aberdeen
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Dude, she has done all she can to show her interest in you. She plays it cool because she is frustrated that you aren't making a move. You said she is mature. She probably isn't going to ask you out. She must think you aren't interested because you haven't asked HER out. What more are you waiting for?
 
Old 08-15-2019, 06:26 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Not sure what the age difference is, but it seems like she’s definitely into you, but fears being rejected.
Are you interested in her OP? If you are, ask her out for drinks and see if she accepts.
 
Old 08-15-2019, 07:17 AM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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My girlfriends do not know about each other.
How can someone sit on someone's lap in a hot tub in a subtle way?

You have much bigger problems than working out what this all means if you have several girlfriends who don't know about each other.
 
Old 08-15-2019, 07:20 AM
 
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Does she frequent the laps of other gents?
 
Old 08-15-2019, 07:42 AM
 
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Yes seems that way but she's difficult to figure out. She did run her fingers through my hair a couple of times. I have a feeling she just does not have the nerve to ask me out on a date. I won't ask her out until she stops playing it cool.
Yeah, she’s the one who doesn’t have the nerve, right?

So you say she’s difficult to figure out, and you won’t “ask her out until she stops playing it cool” hey? Well, given what you’ve described as her behavior, what would not playing it cool even look like? She must sit on your lap, but be naked? She can put her arm around you and run her fingers through your hair, but be naked? Only then she would be seen as not “playing it cool”? Or I suspect even that wouldn’t be enough?

Do you mean the next time you catch her “checking you out” she should also say something like: “I am interested in sexual intercourse in the parking lot at 3pm with you?” Or would that not be clear enough, because she didn’t specify whose car?

If you ever get up the nerve to ask her out, even though she has a boyfriend () definitely do not expect loyalty from this cat in heat fantasy girl...
 
Old 08-15-2019, 07:43 AM
 
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How can someone sit on someone's lap in a hot tub in a subtle way?

You have much bigger problems than working out what this all means if you have several girlfriends who don't know about each other.
Can you imagine with those other part-time girlfriends must’ve gone through to get his attention, if he thinks this one is “playing it cool”??
 
Old 08-15-2019, 11:28 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I don't know if she did that intentionally or not. She does not jump on my laps. It's more subtle. She has done it several times.
How do you "subtly" sit on a semi-clothed person's lap, pray tell? (Inquiring minds want to know. )
 
Old 08-15-2019, 11:30 AM
 
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Yes seems that way but she's difficult to figure out. She did run her fingers through my hair a couple of times. I have a feeling she just does not have the nerve to ask me out on a date. I won't ask her out until she stops playing it cool.
Why would you ask her out if she claims to have a boyfriend? Why is she doing all of that, if she does have a bf? It doesn't make sense. I'd ignore it, if I were you, or tell her to back off, or vary my schedule so as to avoid her, due to the weird mixed signals. She's being awfully forward for someone with a bf.
 
Old 08-15-2019, 11:33 AM
 
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It doesn't matter because you already have your hands full with several part-time girlfriends. You do have a job, right?
lol.


OK, OP, to be practical, instead of just taking pot-shots at your situation, how about you just ask her sometime, by way of chatting, how her bf's doing, or what kind of work does he do, or some such, to get a read on whether he actually exists or not?
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