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Old Today, 08:55 AM
 
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The poster asked how would you feel. I responded that I WOULD FEEL like a loser.
Right?! And if weíre going to do the whole ďnot fair because genderĒ useless pile of crap agenda, then we already know if OP were a woman, Goldigger would have been thrown in the mix immediately.
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Old Today, 09:01 AM
 
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Right?! And if we’re going to do the whole “not fair because gender” useless pile of crap agenda, then we already know if OP were a woman, Goldigger would have been thrown in the mix immediately.
Unfortunately, that is very likely and should be called out. I was just concerned with forcible interjection from an ex, who we are led to believe is crazy, by giving OP benefit of doubt. There are always local civil courts to handle debt disputes between parties, where one party wants no personal contact with the other.
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Old Today, 09:02 AM
 
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Good for you.

The OP quit his job while owning someone almost a thousand dollars. If I were in his ex's shoes, I would be concerned as well.

That poster didn't call HIM a loser. She said she would feel like a loser, which is what he asked.

My reply would be the same to a woman who did the same.
I mean she was my gf at the time so me paying her back was not really a priority she never asked I kept borrowing she kept saying ok with me reminding her Iím aware of how much I owe
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Old Today, 09:03 AM
 
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Unfortunately, that is very likely and should be called out. I was just concerned with forcible interjection from an ex, who we are led to believe is crazy, by giving OP benefit of doubt. There's always local civil courts to handle debt disputes between parties, where one party wants no personal contact with the other.
She said she would sue me I told her for what like go be a rat then Iím gonna pay her Iíll contact her when I got her cash
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Old Today, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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I can't use the language on this forum to describe how it would make me feel. It rhymes with pass.
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Old Today, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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...with me reminding her I’m aware of how much I owe
Aware yet not doing anything about it.

ANY extra cash that you got while you were employed should have gone to her. Even $25 at a time, to show her your good faith effort to pay it back.

Instead you just kept borrowing.

What did you need it for?
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Old Today, 09:07 AM
 
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I mean she was my gf at the time so me paying her back was not really a priority she never asked I kept borrowing she kept saying ok with me reminding her Iím aware of how much I owe
Well, you do you. How is that working out for you?
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Old Today, 09:09 AM
 
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Aware yet not doing anything about it.

ANY extra cash that you got while you were employed should have gone to her. Even $25 at a time, to show her your good faith effort to pay it back.

Instead you just kept borrowing.

What did you need it for?
Didnít feel the need to pay her back right away not a priority she was a gf she was not harassing me for it
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Old Today, 09:11 AM
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I mean she was my gf at the time so me paying her back was not really a priority she never asked I kept borrowing she kept saying ok with me reminding her I’m aware of how much I owe
That's because you were treating her like a bank, where you could just make a random withdrawal whenever you felt like it.
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Old Today, 09:12 AM
 
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Aware yet not doing anything about it.

ANY extra cash that you got while you were employed should have gone to her. Even $25 at a time, to show her your good faith effort to pay it back.

Instead you just kept borrowing.

What did you need it for?
Needed the money for my side job Iím trying to develop and grow needed to pay the ppl to get the side job off ground
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