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Old Today, 09:04 AM
 
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Not sure what the big deal is. This new girl is only looking for casual fun, as I am. Neither of us looking for a relationship. My ex was posting videos from her cottage weekend, that she wasn’t invited to, that I was no longer going to. Why can’t she see what it feels like? She seem to still be confused as to why that made me angry. Maybe she’ll get it now. And good, I want her to think she’ll have an in back to me, cause that would be 10x more heartbreaking than thinking she doesn’t have a shot and starts moving on. Sounds vengeful but I’m still trying to process how and why this happened, how unfair it is. The only person who’s gonna get hurt is the one who deserves it
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Old Today, 09:17 AM
 
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Not sure what the big deal is. This new girl is only looking for casual fun, as I am. Neither of us looking for a relationship. My ex was posting videos from her cottage weekend, that she wasn’t invited to, that I was no longer going to. Why can’t she see what it feels like? She seem to still be confused as to why that made me angry. Maybe she’ll get it now. And good, I want her to think she’ll have an in back to me, cause that would be 10x more heartbreaking than thinking she doesn’t have a shot and starts moving on. Sounds vengeful but I’m still trying to process how and why this happened, how unfair it is. The only person who’s gonna get hurt is the one who deserves it
Seeking revenge is not "casual fun." It's a rare woman who would want to be used as a tool to hurt another woman--even if the other woman "deserves" it.

Grow up and move on.
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Old Today, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Not sure what the big deal is. This new girl is only looking for casual fun, as I am. Neither of us looking for a relationship. My ex was posting videos from her cottage weekend, that she wasn’t invited to, that I was no longer going to. Why can’t she see what it feels like? She seem to still be confused as to why that made me angry. Maybe she’ll get it now. And good, I want her to think she’ll have an in back to me, cause that would be 10x more heartbreaking than thinking she doesn’t have a shot and starts moving on. Sounds vengeful but I’m still trying to process how and why this happened, how unfair it is. The only person who’s gonna get hurt is the one who deserves it
So wrong-headed I don’t even know where to start.

You have a LOT of maturing to do. But your idea of getting back at her makes you sound like a 6-year-old.

Please use protection in your “casual fun.”
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Old Today, 03:50 PM
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Not sure what the big deal is. This new girl is only looking for casual fun, as I am. Neither of us looking for a relationship. My ex was posting videos from her cottage weekend, that she wasn’t invited to, that I was no longer going to. Why can’t she see what it feels like? She seem to still be confused as to why that made me angry. Maybe she’ll get it now. And good, I want her to think she’ll have an in back to me, cause that would be 10x more heartbreaking than thinking she doesn’t have a shot and starts moving on. Sounds vengeful but I’m still trying to process how and why this happened, how unfair it is. The only person who’s gonna get hurt is the one who deserves it
She's not remotely confused, she's playing you like a fiddle. I get it, she hurt you and I agree that what she did was foul. You really want to hurt her? Ignore her. Move on. Become completely, totally sincerely indifferent. Don't even keep her around as a friend, as she'll end up using you in different ways (help me move, be my prop to make the other guy jealous, etc). Ignore her. Move on. Live your life without an ounce of energy directed at a woman who cannot respect you. And take joy in driving her insane by doing absolutely nothing.

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