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Old Today, 05:16 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Petunia 100 View Post
Yes, but you made it sound as though she had some nerve being uninterested.
He always is pissed off if someone won't meet him. He's even messaged the uninterested woman scolding her.

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Originally Posted by archineer View Post
I've posted a pic of me in my album. I was 20 at the time, I just look more mature these days (face is heavier set and I'm grey at the temples. Hair is clipped all over too.) I like the anonymity of this forum so I don't think I'll keep it there for long.
Why are you posting an old pic?

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My point is I was driving at there is. Why not give a quick meet and greet with the guy. Give him a chance to see what he's like in person via the senses, body language. That person may wind up being attracted AFTER meeting him in person.

If still nada, then feel free to move on.

People can so easily dismiss someone with a photo. I knew of women that ignored emails from guys that, after seeing them (the same men) in a real life organic situation, to be charmed by them. I see it as a missed opportunity.

That's like when someone doesn't want to try a food because they know they won't like it. Can't knock it till ya tried it. ;-)
Because she isn't interested in you, why waste your time???? Maybe your look, maybe your profile, who knows, but it's her choice.

 
Old Today, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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Originally Posted by Sonic_Spork View Post
That's not what this is about, IN THE SLIGHTEST.

I would say that most of my attraction to my fiance is due to getting to know him, his personality if you will, his attitudes and behaviors, his energy and the way he treats me and makes me feel...like a whole lot of stuff that is not his looks.

But I, on the other hand, am not going to sit here and say that unless somebody is a "10 in looks" I will hate having sex with them. You are the one putting that one out there.

No woman wants a man as a partner, who is that unenthusiastic a lover. I mean, would you want a woman who only ever faked enjoying sex with you, and later told you that you were the worst lay of her life, just boring and she faked every orgasm and couldn't wait for you to finish, you were so bad. Let's say she's one of those "10" type women, and lets say that somehow (though I am questioning...have you ever actually had an emotional attachment to a woman? Because it sure doesn't sound like it) you had feelings for this woman, and really thought it was a good thing, and she is telling you this. Is that going to be ok with you, that she literally hates having sex with you?

I mean really?

I'm thinking homina12 has nailed this one. You've got some weird "gotcha" agenda going on here.

Frankly I don't really care how pretty your face is. The stuff you've put out in the threads on your attitudes towards women, it's pretty ugly. And hey, if you can complain about pretty women with ugly attitudes...so can we, guy.
Can't rep at the moment, but I completely agree.
 
Old Today, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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I agree at his height chances an attractive lady is gonna fall for him when she can get a tall guy is slim to none.

At his height he should go for average looking woman who can’t get good looking tall guys all woman want.
Why are you 2 so hung up on height? OP's problem is not his height, I can tell you that much.
 
Old Today, 05:27 PM
 
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Dude this thread is so gross! city-data why???
 
Old Today, 05:27 PM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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Why are you posting an old pic?
Well, I looked my best between 20-25, plus it gives me a degree of anonymity. Someone who only met me now might not recognise its me.
 
Old Today, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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Women here are taking it personally when I'm just asking an honest question.
Nah, we just don't like the sexist attitudes that you've revealed on this thread.
 
Old Today, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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Yes, thanks for stating the obvious ;-) We're not talking dating entitlements... I was replying to the point of whomever I was quoting/replying to and that it made perfect sense.
OK. The way you phrased it did sound like you felt entitled to one because she was unattractive.
 
Old Today, 05:34 PM
 
Location: California
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I've posted a pic of me in my album. I was 20 at the time, I just look more mature these days (face is heavier set and I'm grey at the temples. Hair is clipped all over too.) I like the anonymity of this forum so I don't think I'll keep it there for long.
Why would you post a pic of you at 20? We all perfect looking at 20, lmao.
 
Old Today, 05:36 PM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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Why would you post a pic of you at 20? We all perfect looking at 20, lmao.
I haven't suddenly turned ugly at 40 lol.

I MIGHT post a more recent pic
 
Old Today, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Continental Europe
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To be honest, this thread reminds me of incels. Those guys really convince themselves that the women they want, don't want to be with them because they're not that good looking, too short, or have some other impediment they cannot change. When in fact, the reason they cannot attract someone is because their attitudes about women & sex are unhealthy and they have a lot of psychological issues. They're trapped in something of their own making and they can't see the true reasons for their lack of success, and that they can do some inner work to improve their prospects at finding the right partner.

I do think you are totally missing the point OP, in a similar sort of way. Not that many women are going to care that you're 5ft 8 or that you're an architect and some won't care that you have a disability. As Sonic said, women care more about how you make them feel. You like to throw out sexist stereotypes that seek to diminish women and cause conflict... None of that makes anyone feel good except maybe you.

Also, you don't look like a male version of Kelly Brook, and why are you posting a 20 year old photo?
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