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She currently knows, we just don’t have an official date yet. But I can tell you, I’m going to be seeing her again soon. How soon? We’ll see & no I don’t think I’ll have to wait another 6 weeks. We’ll see each really soon.
That's up to you, you know.
Right now I'm not sure she hasn't had second thoughts and is starting to put you off with that, "I'll see when I'm free..." thing.
If she works an hourly job, she has to know her schedule for this weekend unless her manager just sucks. So you need to pick a day and throw it out there with specific plans and a time so she can say yes or no and y'all can get this show on the road. Otherwise y'all are still "just talking."
He IS 30, though, which, while young relative to many of us here, is plenty old enough to know NOT to waste almost 2 months texting "hey" to a woman and then blurting out "I wanna make something happen with you sexually..." the day after their first date.
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Wouldn't have believed it, if I hadn't seen it on CD-R!
Right now I'm not sure she hasn't had second thoughts and is starting to put you off with that, "I'll see when I'm free..." thing.
If she works an hourly job, she has to know her schedule for this weekend unless her manager just sucks. So you need to pick a day and throw it out there with specific plans and a time so she can say yes or no and y'all can get this show on the road. Otherwise y'all are still "just talking."
Why is it necessary to micro-manage a 30-year-old's courtship process to this ridiculous extent?!
OP, did you attend a boys' high school, and miss out on social skills training, or something? Or is what we're seeing here, the effect of growing up with an internet device in one's hand at all times?
Somebody help me put this in perspective, please. I'm struggling to get my mind around this.
The good news is he's asking for advice and feedback.
Antwuan, what do you really want to happen? Are you interested in a relationship? You want to be in love and all that?
Or do you just want another FWB?
Trying to figure things out & see where goes but the way things are going I’d be open & interested in a “Relationship” someday & being with her & time will tell but our connection is pretty good right now.
She told me last night that she feels a “Connection” with me. The majority of my texts/our texts are about getting to know her & each other, I know I said I wanted to make something happen with her sexually but outside of that the sex talk has been limited.
She told me last night that she feels a “Connection” with me. The majority of my texts/our texts are about getting to know her & each other, I know I said I wanted to make something happen with her sexually but outside of that the sex talk has been limited.
Sounds good.
Hopefully you two get together this weekend. You need some momentum here.
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After she said she wanna take things so slow with me yesterday I replied with Understandable.
I’m actually texting her right now, should I tell her that I’m willing to take things slow & not pressure her into anything?
if you keep bringing it up it will sound like you are obsessed with sex.
and this female is human, correct ?
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Texting/Talking
But we were also trying to find time to plan something when were both free because some days I work & she’s off, some days she works & I’m off. I have more a set schedule than she does.
this seems like a game of whoever is the least interested wins. its impossible that two persons cant link up for a 10 minute coffee in about 2 months.
i wanna' give birdiebelle all the points but this site says i have to spread some reputation around first.
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It shouldn't be noteworthy. It should be the way it is done.
if its the way it should be done, and many people arent doing it, then its noteworthy. you should study before taking a math test. hence reminders from teachers and parents to study. you should drive sober, hence reminders not to drink and drive
if he stated he wanted tomeet her and have sex with her on the first or second date, people would be yammering about consent and possible lack of it
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Wouldn't have believed it, if I hadn't seen it on CD-R!
New Female (Former Coworker) I Have A Few Questions
