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Old Today, 02:36 PM
 
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Old Today, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Winterpeg
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So you have issues with her sleeping with 3 guys, and you tried to reconcile with an ex-spouse with whom you had a long term(?) relationship? That sort of emotional involvement would be more worrying to me than 3 one-nighters.

Only you can decide if you can get over her past, and she yours. You can't keep holding her past over her head if you want to have a happy relationship, that's not fair.
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Old Today, 02:48 PM
 
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I except that. Not saying I’m right. I understand really I do. We both feel this way. Not just me. I will not hold it over her head
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Old Today, 02:50 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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She was just having fun with no strings attached. That’s why she had three partners, so she wouldn’t feel emotionally invested. She wanted to be distracted from your breakup and be free. She was free. It’s a great way to declare your independence. Other than that, it meant nothing.

You, on the other hand, went back to your ex where there was an emotional attachment. Even if you didn’t have sex, you wanted to on some level.

So the next test in your relationship is how you handle the situation. Sex is often just a physical act. You should probably just shrug it off and be happy to have her back.
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Old Today, 02:57 PM
 
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Thank you Ellie,I am glad
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Old Today, 05:51 PM
 
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Thank you Ellie,I am glad
Be kind to one another and rebuild your relationship. Drop the subject of your flings as if it never happened. Forgive. Move on and be happy.
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