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Old Yesterday, 05:44 PM
 
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A little more information on her. She's 40, no kids, never been married.
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Old Yesterday, 05:46 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Sounds a bit fast. Why don’t you ask her to slow down? Maybe she’s perfectly fine but feeling anxious after the trauma of her recent breakup?
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Old Yesterday, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Relax and go with her. Enjoy yourself. In her eyes, you might be quite a catch.
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Old Yesterday, 06:41 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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She's 40 and has no children--maybe that's why she's moving so fast? There's still some time for that first baby.

And yes, that seems kind of fast to me.
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Old Yesterday, 06:43 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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A little more information on her. She's 40, no kids, never been married.
Yeah. Sounds desperate. Perhaps needy and afraid to be lonely?
But most important is how you, OP, feel about? Whatever you feel - listen to your guts.
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Old Yesterday, 07:01 PM
 
Location: St. Louis
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She might be moving too fast but then again she may just want to attend those events with a date and not by herself. Honestly I think that’s why some folks date.
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Old Yesterday, 09:21 PM
 
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She just wants to have some fun. Don't expect to start anything long term, that's likely not going to happen. As long as that's ok with you.



The only thing about going on a cruise is that you can't leave if things deteriorate. Another cabin will likely not be available should you want to be apart from her. You know little about her.
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Old Yesterday, 11:19 PM
 
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I don't see a problem with the tickets, but you might tell her you would like to get to know her a little better before going on a vacation with her. And, like someone else said.... maybe she wants a child before it's too late.
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Old Today, 12:29 AM
 
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maybe trying to screw a lover/husband over and make them jealous with you as the pawn? racking up all sorts of charges and stuff on his dime, then he finds out and you get caught in the middle, and on the end of a crazy dude trying to beat you down. i've seen this kind of thing thing before. Not pretty.

i would make sure she really has broken things off with her ex before proceeding. And even then, be careful. She could be rich or have excess cash to blow, or she could have bad financial problems and is completely batshkskkt crazy. proceed carefully regardless.
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Old Today, 12:39 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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Dating just a month and she is already planning a cruise trip with you?
Lol... now she sounds crazy.
Maybe she had already paid for the cruise before her previous relationship ended and is looking for someone to go with her.

Offering to purchase extra season tickets to our NFL teams games this year. Buying $100 tickets to a concert WITHOUT asking you, planning a cruise trip for next year with someone she just met - sounds pretty patronizing and controlling to me.
She IS desperate, and showing off. Does she think that she can buy you?
Are you low life/low income guy she wants to impress? Did you told her that you have 2 kids, one still in HS? Is she taking them into consideration? Planning weekends without asking if you are going to see your kid(s) at that time?

Don't know about you, but that wouldn't be my type of a gal...

BTW: you didn't say anything about her character and appearance, yet. Is she attractive? Easy to talk to, interesting, fun, good listener, nice to others, any common interests? Did you met any of her friends? Had sex with her?
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