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Old Yesterday, 04:34 PM
 
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I'm a 43 year old divorced male with a 21 and 15 year old. I met a female on the 4th of July. About a week after meeting she offered to purchase extra season tickets to our NFL teams games this year. She also bought $100 dollar tickets for both of us to a concert for this coming weekend without asking first. Just a month in, she says she wants to go on a cruise next year and asked me to go with her. She stated she was in a fifteen year habitation relationship until April this year. She said his infidelity ended the relationship. I'm worried why she's moving so fast and even wonder if she's not over him and trying to make him jealous even. Am I reading too much into all of this?

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Old Yesterday, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm a 43 year old divorced male with a 21 and 15 year old. I met a female on the 4th of July. About a week after meeting she offered to purchase extra season tickets to our NFL teams games this year. She also bought 100 tickets to a concert for this coming weekend without asking first. Just a month in, she says she wants to go on a cruise next year and asked me to go with her. She stated she was in a fifteen year habitation relationship until April this year. She said his infidelity ended the relationship. I'm worried why she's moving so fast and even wonder if she's not over him and trying to make him jealous even. Am I reading too much into all of this?
I think you should listen to your gut and not commit to anything you're not ready for, even a cruise next year.
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Old Yesterday, 04:53 PM
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Location: Boulder, CO
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She bought 100 concert tickets ? What ?
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Old Yesterday, 04:56 PM
 
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She bought 100 concert tickets ? What ?

LOL I need to reword that. She bought tickets that coat 100 dollars each.
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Old Yesterday, 05:00 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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I think you should listen to your gut and not commit to anything you're not ready for, even a cruise next year.
Yes. This.
She also sounds desperate. I don't trust people who are trying to buy affection.
Need more info about her, though. Status, job/money, kids, age...
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Old Yesterday, 05:02 PM
 
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I'm a 43 year old divorced male with a 21 and 15 year old. I met a female on the 4th of July. About a week after meeting she offered to purchase extra season tickets to our NFL teams games this year. She also bought $100 dollar tickets for both of us to a concert for this coming weekend without asking first. Just a month in, she says she wants to go on a cruise next year and asked me to go with her. She stated she was in a fifteen year habitation relationship until April this year. She said his infidelity ended the relationship. I'm worried why she's moving so fast and even wonder if she's not over him and trying to make him jealous even. Am I reading too much into all of this?
I'll be honest.

I think moving fast at your age (and I'm the same age) is good.

Get on that treadmill, crank it up, and see if you've got a winner.

You're both mature adults (real adults). What's the problem?
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Old Yesterday, 05:03 PM
 
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go for it.
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Old Yesterday, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Texas
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She sounds crazy to me. Seriously.
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Old Yesterday, 05:16 PM
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Location: Boulder, CO
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She sounds wealthy. Enjoy the ride while it lasts.
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Old Yesterday, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Run. In the opposite direction.
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