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Old Today, 12:04 PM
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I have been on 2 dates with a guy from a dating app and I feel we have known each other our whole lives - like a soulmate connection. There have been no awkward silences and we have had similar life experiences and interests. He will say something first and then I respond so I know he isn't telling me what I want to hear. We end up mirroring each other's body language. He talks as though we will be a couple in the future.

He told me about his dating history which is quite trusting to do. He seems lonely as he has been cheated on, dated narcissists and has had one night stands but does not enjoy them. He is entitled to his past but Iím scared to get involved in case I get hurt. He also shows signs of low self esteem as he says he is not photogenic, has anxiety and has dated dysfunctional women.

I donít know what are his intentions, hook up or genuine but he said he wants to meet someone for a real connection. We havenít kissed and he just hugs me at the end of dates. Should I just stay friends with him or move on and find someone else? I don't want to be getting involved with men who are not healed.

Old Today, 12:14 PM
Location: Florida
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I would say anybody you've gotten along with well and enjoyed is somebody you should definitely not see again unless you can confirm that he is perfect in every way.
Are you?
Old Today, 01:31 PM
Location: SoCal again
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I agree with old_cold.

Most guys I know say they are not photogenic and have dated dysfunctional people.

Do you rather have a guy who sends you selfies all day long and is close friends with his awesome, smoking hot ex girlfriends?
Old Today, 01:32 PM
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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OP, please - not AGAIN!
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