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Old 08-30-2019, 09:56 AM
 
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Just tell her. The only thing that you will be smoking is me...

This relationship is doom so you should hit the eject button now.
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Old 09-03-2019, 07:18 AM
 
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Itís not rocket science... All one needs is a nose, and to have been around people who smoke.

Yeah, that's what you keep saying. Got it.
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Old 09-03-2019, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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Do you smoke after sex? I do not know. I never looked.
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Old 09-03-2019, 03:49 PM
 
Location: California
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...as if smoking is the ONLY "bad habit" that people have that impacts the chances you'll die prematurely. Sure, smoking is the most obvious one. But so is texting while driving...among many other things that could be considered stupid but don't seem to be reviled.
Who said it was the ONLY bad habit?? I certainly didn't.

I'd never put up with someone texting while driving. That's such a dangerous and irresponsible thing to do that I'd hope it would go without saying that it would be a dealbreaker.
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Old 09-03-2019, 04:58 PM
 
Location: State of Washington (2016)
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Can't you just ask her not to smoke around you? You said you can't smell it on her and maybe she is a light smoker. If you really care about her, let her just be herself.
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Old 09-03-2019, 05:03 PM
 
Location: North Beach, MD on the Chesapeake
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I'm curious how many of you anti smokers, including the OP, would be saying "dump her" if it was weed instead of tobacco.
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Old 09-03-2019, 05:05 PM
 
Location: State of Washington (2016)
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I'm curious how many of you anti smokers, including the OP, would be saying "dump her" if it was weed instead of tobacco.
It wouldn't make any difference. He could still ask her not to do it around him.
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Old 09-03-2019, 05:09 PM
 
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I've been out on 9 dates with this girl I met on an online dating site. It was my fault but I didn't ask her on the first date whether she was a smoker or not. I have visited the place she has been living on half of the dates and there were no indications that she was a smoker. She doesn't smell of cigarettes when I am close to her, even kissing I don't pickup anything.



On our last date I went back to hers again. As I entered the front door I could distinctly smell cigarettes. When I went to sit by the coffee table I saw a packet of cigarettes. At this point my mind kind of froze, I wasn't sure what to do. I casually asked if the cigarettes were hers and she said her friend give them to her.



I've never before mentioned to her my dislike of smoking or mentioned anything to do with smoking. I assumed she wasn't a smoker and so didn't bring anything up, this was so stupid of me.



I like her quite a bit and I will be seeing her again soon. How should I handle this situation?
Why in the hell do you care so much she smokes? You care what toilet paper she uses also? Soft or medium toothbrush?

The trivial BS people concern themselves with sometimes...
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Old 09-03-2019, 05:18 PM
 
Location: North Beach, MD on the Chesapeake
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It wouldn't make any difference. He could still ask her not to do it around him.
But would he have his "mind (or brain, I forget which now) freeze" if he saw a bong on her coffee table?
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Old 09-03-2019, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Between West Chester and Chester, PA
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I'm curious how many of you anti smokers, including the OP, would be saying "dump her" if it was weed instead of tobacco.
The smell of marijuana smoke makes my stomach turn. Plus, I cannot even be around the stuff since what I do for a living is safety sensitive. In the event of a random **** test, even having the results come back positive from being around a person who smokes it will result in being terminated from the job.
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