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Just because you have eventually gotten it right (maybe) doesn't make you a better person or a better advisor than the rest of us....Evidently you think if you’re fine in some department you have a license to look down at and ridicule those who haven’t been as fortunate.
How do you know that any of what I have written is true or related to reality in any way whatsoever.
For all you know I could be a single 23 year old female graduate student doing a project on cyber-reality who has created an on-line character based entirely on research gleaned from Internet forums.
For all you know I could be a single 23 year old female graduate student doing a project on cyber-reality who has created an on-line character based entirely on research gleaned from Internet forums.
Wanna go on a date?
FWIW - if you're posting in a public forum, it's a bit unrealistic to say "please don't be so harsh with me" - I think we ALL have combat stories we could relate about online flame-wars and off-line romantic problems.
It's the broad spectrum of personalities that make it interesting and, like Sierra said, makes at least something worth reading.
To the OP - perhaps the toughest yet best thing to do would be to move on. Carrying memories and feelings of relationships that don't work is a burden that no one really needs. But if you decide to stay, try to forget the past - learn from it, but forget the details.
Why would you want to stay with someone who is in another relationship that is not even in the same country? Do you not feel you deserve better? Stay out! Find someone better for you.
As the old country song goes, she "done you wrong."
You should NOT follow her around like a dog; nobody likes a wimpy doormat, and she clearly does not have your best interests at heart since she misled to you and carried on a relationship with another guy. She's a two-timing liar.
Break all contact with her and move on to a new girl. Yes, you'll be sad, and yes, it will hurt. That's one of the most common lessons of life, but you will get over it eventually. She is untrustworthy and treated you badly...so DTMFA.
Thank you for this sir.. Ima hold on to this advice.. ima do my best, she lied to me for one year, who wud beliv if she say she loves me more than that guy right?
Thanks again.. and i dont know what the others around here think of this...
Please explain this love relationship with a woman who lives in another country. How long have you known her? How did you meet? How much time have you actually spent in her company? How often to you even see her in person? Why do you love her? Is it because she is hot looking?
Please explain this love relationship with a woman who lives in another country. How long have you known her? How did you meet? How much time have you actually spent in her company? How often to you even see her in person? Why do you love her? Is it because she is hot looking?
And how old are the two of you?
Ive known her for 8months before she became my girl, met her in china, I was with her as a bf for 2 months then she went back to malaysia and i went to philippines... 1year and 4months we didnt see each other in person, we only talk by internet messenger... i love her coz she was sooo sweet and she was always there to listen to me and all.. we call each other everyday, hours n hours. (planning after she graduate we gonna see each other and settle down).. i just didnt expect she was hiding something, well, she is really a a good lier or maybe, im just too blind and trusted her alot...
the truth, now i cant even tell which is real and which is fake...
let her go. why owuld you accept someone being disloyal to you? next time find a girl firend closer. long distance or internet relationships arent real realtionships (commuter relationships are a different thing tho). just move on and im sure you will be happy. this isnt the last girl on earth eventho you think she is.
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