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05-08-2008, 07:09 PM
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Bad Girls/Guys
As a guy in his late 20's, for some reason I've always been attracted to the bad girls. The sweet innocent ones just bore me no matter how much I try to like them. What makes the bad ones so damn attractive (and I don't mean just looks)?
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05-08-2008, 07:20 PM
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Nuttin a 2 step wont fix!
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To me it means.. they are easier to lay down... Not in all cases but usually.. maybe that is why you are attracted to them...
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05-08-2008, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted by VikM
As a guy in his late 20's, for some reason I've always been attracted to the bad girls. The sweet innocent ones just bore me no matter how much I try to like them. What makes the bad ones so damn attractive (and I don't mean just looks)?
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Don't worry, buddy! Some of us are way older than you and still have the same problem!  |
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05-08-2008, 08:40 PM
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Originally Posted by The Man in SATX
To me it means.. they are easier to lay down... Not in all cases but usually.. maybe that is why you are attracted to them...
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I think he speaks the plain truth. |
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05-08-2008, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by The Man in SATX
To me it means.. they are easier to lay down... Not in all cases but usually.. maybe that is why you are attracted to them...
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Hey!!! What's that suppose to mean. I'm easy to lay down.  Maybe it's the fact they liked to be spanked, oh wait  OH NEVER MIND  |
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05-08-2008, 08:52 PM
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was your MOM/MOTHER a "bad woman/bad girl". Examples: Sassy, opinionated, speaks her mind, controlling, loud, talkative, good at sports, competitive, drinker, THE BOSS of the household, and dominates others??
That could be the reason, WE attract to people who raised us, but you will set yourself up for a major let down. Narcissistic women are lame to be around and even worse in relationships. 
Most guys won't understand this until they are 70 or 80 after their heart has been broken and stomped on about 20 times. so there is no use in me lecturing now is there.
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Originally Posted by VikM
As a guy in his late 20's, for some reason I've always been attracted to the bad girls. The sweet innocent ones just bore me no matter how much I try to like them. What makes the bad ones so damn attractive (and I don't mean just looks)?
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05-08-2008, 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
was your MOM/MOTHER a "bad woman/bad girl". Examples: Sassy, opinionated, speaks her mind, controlling, loud, talkative, good at sports, competitive, drinker, THE BOSS of the household, and dominates others??
That could be the reason, WE attract to people who raised us, but you will set yourself up for a major let down. Narcissistic women are lame to be around and even worse in relationships.
Most guys won't understand this until they are 70 or 80 after their heart has been broken and stomped on about 20 times. so there is no use in me lecturing now is there.
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She wasn't the exact description you gave up there... but she never did and still doesn't take sh*t from people. And she was 100% honest even if it hurt. But she definitley wasn't narcissistic. She was one of the most generous and friendly people I've ever met.
You might have a point with the easy comment. They are always more aggressive in that department. |
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05-08-2008, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by artsyguy
...WE attract to people who raised us...
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Since you are attracted to men, your mother must have been a real interesting person. |
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05-08-2008, 10:17 PM
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Nuttin a 2 step wont fix!
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Now now .. Mona.. you were not supposed to let everyone know about our secrets!! Now the cat is out of the bag!! |
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05-08-2008, 10:19 PM
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Nuttin a 2 step wont fix!
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Don't worry, buddy! Some of us are way older than you and still have the same problem! |
Your attracted to bad girls? Interesting  |
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