Catcalling: creepy or a compliment? (male, sex, definition, therapist)

[uglyblackjohn]

I was "date-raped" I was way beyond drunk and a girl kept grabbing me. She was a friend's ex- we had a 1yr. rule- and she was still off limits. She was hot so naturally I was umm.. . I moved from room to room and said no 9 times. Eventually she climbed on top and.. date-rape!
But to answer the Op- If the woman is hot enough and not too rude, it's okay. If I'm not interested and she persists beyond repeated "no, thank you"s , It gets annoying.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Nah, so far you'd be the only one!

I was starring in that movie - doesn't count.

[TKramar]

let's just say that the physical response does NOT have to match the mental response...

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by TKramar

let's just say that the physical response does NOT have to match the mental response...

Nicely worded.

[MonaLisaVito]

Originally Posted by uglyblackjohn

I was "date-raped" I was way beyond drunk and a girl kept grabbing me. She was a friend's ex- we had a 1yr. rule- and she was still off limits. She was hot so naturally I was umm.. . I moved from room to room and said no 9 times. Eventually she climbed on top and.. date-rape!

What happened when you moved from room to room? Weren't you able to get away at all? Shut the door and hold your body up against it? Were you able to overpower her at any time? I would think you being a man you may have been able to just knock her out with one punch to the face, it is self defense when you are being raped. Did she have a weapon?

Please forgive my questions if she had a weapon or was able to overpower you.

I remember being raped. I remember screaming and begging for him to stop. Fighting and kicking and punching as hard as I could. Trying to bite him. He was stronger than me and held me down, I couldn't get away. I remember at one point dry heaving and choking on my own salivia. At no time was I sexually aroused, NEVER, by that I also mean I was not sexually stimulated down there (trying to be PG here), I'm not sure how a man being raped could hold an erection during such a violent and terrifying act.

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by MonaLisaVito

I'm not sure how a man being raped could hold an erection during such a violent and terrifying act.

He couldn't.

That's why male rape by a female exists only on the level of sexist theoretical psycho-babble.

It has nothing to do with the reality of rape as you so aptly describe it, and to even indulge in such a comparative discussion diminishes the seriousness of rape which is a violent, psychotic, attack, not an erotic exercise.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by Fat Freddy

He couldn't.

That's why male rape by a female exists only on the level of sexist theoretical psycho-babble.

It has nothing to do with the reality of rape as you so aptly describe it, and to even indulge in such a comparative discussion diminishes the seriousness of rape which is a violent, psychotic, attack, not an erotic exercise.

Sorry, Fred - you're wrong.

Stick to humor - you're great at that.

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

Sorry, Fred - you're wrong.

Stick to humor - you're great at that.

Sorry, Phil - you're wrong.

Stick to whips and chains and pirate costumes - you're great at that.

[SifuPhil]

Originally Posted by Fat Freddy

Sorry, Phil - you're wrong.

Stick to whips and chains and pirate costumes - you're great at that.

Wow.

I have to thank you, Fred. You made me do something I haven't done in a long, long time.

I overestimated you.

Thanks.

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by SifuPhil

I overestimated you.

You also overestimated the power of the male erection under conditions of extreme stress and potential danger.