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The best thing for a man is to just act like a big lovable dog in these situations. Don't judge, just listen and wag your freakin' tail, and hug. I remember a couple months ago talking to a girl on the phone that I liked, and she started to get emotional over a little incident that happened, so I tried to explain why it wasn't that big a deal. After two hours, it was a total disaster area on the phone. Lesson really hit home.
Brillant!!! " I love the "Big Lovable Dog" act. You actually get this ! Bravo!!
No. It means you accept the person where they are at with their feelings - right or wrong. Get it now?
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Originally Posted by Capt. Dan
Validating feelings means agreeing that what you are feeling is right. Isnt it? Seems to me that if you are all upset about something that you have misunderstood and I say " thats right honey," then I'm just paving the way for you to be emotional all the time for nothing. Isnt it better to sort the issues out now? Women! I love ya all!
This may sound odd, but what is it about the uniform that women find attractive? I have heard this from several women and the types of uniforms ranged from construction worker to cook to airline pilot and every thing in between.
I can see how a cop or fireman would play into a fantasy, but is it the actual uniform itself or the profession?
Or is it that the uniform tells the ladies that this guy simply has a job and is not a bum?
This may sound odd, but what is it about the uniform that women find attractive? I have heard this from several women and the types of uniforms ranged from construction worker to cook to airline pilot and every thing in between.
I can see how a cop or fireman would play into a fantasy, but is it the actual uniform itself or the profession?
Or is it that the uniform tells the ladies that this guy simply has a job and is not a bum?
Men in uniform give me the creeps personally - guess its from too many speeding tickets but no I've never been attracted to a man in a uniform. I don't even usually notice men in uniforms because my stereotypical brain tells me uniform = uptight and bossy and probably won't participate in the illegal things i like to do in my free time
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