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Old 05-20-2008, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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So who's husband acts like this?

Mine is acting like a 35 year old in a 5 year old's body. For no freaking reason. Most of the time, 90% of the time, he's kind, caring and loving. Today he woke up in a bad mood and has been acting that way all day. I feel like I'm dealing with a toddler. Any minute now he's going to throw himself down on the floor and kick and cry.
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Old 05-20-2008, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Everyone has bad days.

I would just head out of the house for a few hours.
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Old 05-20-2008, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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well, lucky me gets to work all day and so does he. We talk by phone and email though. And every conversation is trying.
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Old 05-20-2008, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Put him on ignore. My guy does that to me also from time to time. I just tell him if he wants to have a bad day that's fine. but leave me out of it.

Then just ignore his emails for the rest of the day.
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Old 05-20-2008, 02:39 PM
 
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Sounds like male PMS....must be that time of the month for him.
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Old 05-20-2008, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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So who's husband acts like this?
I think a better question would be "whose husband DOESN'T act like this"? It narrows down the sample.
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Old 05-20-2008, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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hahaha! that makes me feel better guys. thanks...
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Old 05-20-2008, 03:00 PM
 
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Okay. Let me put it this way.

The first time he did it, it was his fault.

The second time he did it, it was your fault.

Silence implies consent. If the guy acts like a baby and you tolerate it, he's going to pull that stunt again. So I think you need to serve him a steaming hot cup of **** and leave the house until he can behave like a civilized person again. I bet he doesn't treat you that way any more after that.
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Old 05-20-2008, 03:55 PM
 
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ya go shopping or swimming.

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So who's husband acts like this?

Mine is acting like a 35 year old in a 5 year old's body. For no freaking reason. Most of the time, 90% of the time, he's kind, caring and loving. Today he woke up in a bad mood and has been acting that way all day. I feel like I'm dealing with a toddler. Any minute now he's going to throw himself down on the floor and kick and cry.
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Old 05-20-2008, 03:56 PM
 
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I never knew silence meant consent. That is new to me but is interesting. I always thought of silence as the "cold shoulder" or "silent treatment" as a form of punishment.

My problem is what happens if you tell the person it bothers you and you don't like it. Then they use that against you more often.

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Okay. Let me put it this way.

The first time he did it, it was his fault.

The second time he did it, it was your fault.

Silence implies consent. If the guy acts like a baby and you tolerate it, he's going to pull that stunt again. So I think you need to serve him a steaming hot cup of **** and leave the house until he can behave like a civilized person again. I bet he doesn't treat you that way any more after that.
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