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Old 05-29-2008, 08:00 AM
 
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Default Okay. Let's Get This Board Moving Again.

Ever had a fling with somebody where you knew it was wrong beforehand and during the wild thing, but you just couldn't resist?

When I was single, there was a woman I dated like that. The chemistry was incredible, but the relationship itself was awful. So we couldn't keep from ripping away each other's clothes, but would always get into terrible fights afterwards. I guess being around her was analogous to a narcotic that had Godawful aftereffects.

About five years after I got married, she looked me up and called me out of the blue, suggesting lunch. Fortunately, I had enough presence of mind to say, "I just don't think that's a very good idea," and never heard from her again.

Anybody like that with you?
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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I think every single woman in my LIFE I've ever hooked up with gave me that feeling...

...it's nice, isn't it? :>)
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:13 AM
 
Location: West Texas
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When I was new to the Navy, I had a crush on my boss. She was about 9 years older than me, and I saw her as absolutely beautiful and intelligent. After her husband left for a deployment, she approached me, and a relationship developed. We continued the relationship for about 3 months before finally breaking it off.

To this day, I feel absolutely horrible about it. I could claim that I had just gone through an emotionally terrible divorce (which I had), but that is not an excuse. I just showed bad judgement.

The husband did approach me with it, and I felt if he had the guts to ask (any of you that has ever had anyone cheat on them knows the "pit in the stomach" feeling), I should have the 'stones' to admit to it and face the consequences. I did admit to it with him, and he mentioned that I wasn't the only one. After her and I broke it off, there were two others before her husband returned from deployment.

Man, was I an idiot! But.. at the time, it made me feel good and important that a woman like that would want to be with me. Now, I just feel like an idiot for doing that to someone else.
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:13 AM
 
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Yeah, I did in high school. He called me up 15 years later and I got together with him...for one weekend. Never called him back after that. LOL
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:16 AM
 
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I think every single woman in my LIFE I've ever hooked up with gave me that feeling...

...it's nice, isn't it? :>)

Oh yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:19 AM
 
Location: Moon Over Palmettos
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Yup! More than once! Gotta love those Blasts from the Past!!!
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Now, I just feel like an idiot for doing that to someone else.
No, you're just human.

Join the club - we have tea and finger-sandwiches in the back.
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Old 05-29-2008, 08:25 AM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Yes I married two! One when I was 19, she was smoking hot, a stripper, and wild as any succumbus could be. it lasted a month and we're great friends..the other, you'd think I might have learned something, if I couldn't handle a lower demon, marrying satan herself wasn't the answer...18 YEARS of hell on earth
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Old 05-29-2008, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Been there a few times....it is most definately fun....good times.
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Old 05-29-2008, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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Hmmm,

I almost had a fling with a married guy when I was 18. I wanted him so bad, I would dream about what I was going to do to him. He was only a few years older, just married, and had a newborn baby Anyway, a friend set us up at a party. So after a few minutes of just talking I started getting this sick feeling, all I could think about was his wife and baby girl at home. I don't even remember anything he said because the wife and baby were on my mind the whole time. I then became disgusted with him. I told him I couldn't do this and left and Never looked back. I never kissed him, touched him or anything. AND NEVER EVER looked at a married man again

A few years later, my now husband started working in the building next to his, I was up visiting my husband and when I left - the married guy came over to talk to my husband and asked about me, my husband told him that's my girlfriend, and the guy told him he knew me and I was one classy lady.
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