When a male isn't ready for sex (woman, love, kiss)

[yankeegirl313]

Awwww....Then I would realize that something was seriously wrong, and would hope that he would feel close enough to me to talk about it.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Haaziq

She's talking about relationships. A lot of men on this forum tend to call women evil just because their relationships go bad.

I actually should have specified...I meant VictorianPunk's women-are-evil stories, specifically.

He seems to pull one out of a hat any time he wants to justify his absolutely unbelievable misogyny, the extent of which I haven't often seen, and the degree of his terror of/mistrust of women, the extent of which I've never seen.

I'm serious about the psychiatrist, victorianpunk. Your justifications and rationalizations run toward the scary and I fear you might end up hurting a woman one day based on what you believe about her, whether it's true or not. Nothing, NOTHING logical EVER convinces you. You are in your own little world of hatred and it's only going to harm you...and maybe eventually somebody else.

Get help. The sooner the better.

[victorianpunk]

Originally Posted by Haaziq

She's talking about relationships. A lot of men on this forum tend to call women evil just because their relationships go bad.

Well, I have never had nor saught out a relationship, therefore I am not calling women "evil" because of any ill will. I only said that "women might take that as a sign of weakness". I said nothing about women in general being evil...Drew's girlfriend might of been, but nowhere in this thread was I implying that women were evil.

[Haaziq]

Originally Posted by JerZ

mistrust of women

Mistrust of women and misogyny are not connected.

I don't trust women.

Oh, wait, I don't trust anybody.

Nevermind, lol.

[miu]

Originally Posted by victorianpunk

Ladies, if you were going out with a man and when you tried to sleep with him, he started to cry and said he wasn't ready, your responds would be what?

Are we talking about a situation where the couple was dating for a while? Is the man in question a virgin? And what kind of crying? A few tears? Big sobs? Hysterics and curling up into a fetal position on the bed? I suppose that some virgin women cry also when they aren't ready to have sex with their first boyfriend.

I think that in my case, I would never insult or be cruel to a guy like that. If I really liked his company as a person and I considered him also a good friend, then I would probably be willing to stick around and wait until he felt ready to have sex with me. It would also depend on if he was honest with me as to why he wasn't ready to have sex. For instance, if that person was scared of having sex because he'd been sexually abused as a child, I might strongly suggest to him that he seek professional help.

[victorianpunk]

Originally Posted by JerZ

I actually should have specified...I meant VictorianPunk's women-are-evil stories, specifically.

He seems to pull one out of a hat any time he wants to justify his absolutely unbelievable misogyny, the extent of which I haven't often seen, and the degree of his terror of/mistrust of women, the extent of which I've never seen.

I'm serious about the psychiatrist, victorianpunk. Your justifications and rationalizations run toward the scary and I fear you might end up hurting a woman one day based on what you believe about her, whether it's true or not. Nothing, NOTHING logical EVER convinces you. You are in your own little world of hatred and it's only going to harm you...and maybe eventually somebody else.

Get help. The sooner the better.

WHAT STORIES? This is the first time I gave any narrative, i.e., story. When did I say anything bad about women? I only mentioned some of my feelings on them, but never said anything bad about them.

Show me were I said anything misogynistic. Do I feel "terror" at the notion of sex with a woman? Yes...but more like a severe apprehension. Do I not understand women? I admit as much, but I don't understand Bush supporters, does that mean I want to "hurt them"?...well...okay, another example, I don't understand people who don't like Star Wars, does that mean I will put an axe through someone's head because they don't know who Chewbacca is? No.

The only one who needs help here is you.

[victorianpunk]

Originally Posted by Haaziq

Mistrust of women and misogyny are not connected.

I don't trust women.

Oh, wait, I don't trust anybody.

Nevermind, lol.

I know who you are...

[Haaziq]

Originally Posted by victorianpunk

I know who you are...

I'm not white nor would I ever work for the government.

[victorianpunk]

Originally Posted by Haaziq

I'm not white nor would I ever work for the government.

I bad...

[brokendolly]

I've been quiet about this for a while but I have read the other threads that the op has started.

My conclusion is that he is obsessed with Sex and the City and believes that it has some validation in real life. My second observation it that it does seem that he holds women in contempt and truly dislikes them.

In any event he has adopted his troll mantle very well.