cheating (relations)

[ExPit]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Only for liars

Take heart. Put you in the right situation, under the right circumstances with the right guy or girl, and most importantly, if you knew that you would never get caught, then you might be shocked to find that you too can be a liar.

An edit: if not you then maybe your significant other!

[page3000]

For those of you who say monogamy is a lie...I really feel sorry for you. You have preconditioned yourself to ALWAYS accept a lover/partner that will NEVER respect your trust..and whom will never show you loyalty.

[page3000]

Originally Posted by ExPit

Take heart. Put you in the right situation, under the right circumstances with the right guy or girl, and most importantly, if you knew that you would never get caught, then you might be shocked to find that you too can be a liar.

An edit: if not you then maybe your significant other!

Some of us have morals and values so I wouldn't try to label everyone like this. I have had trillions of chances to cheat and get away with it. I have been cheated on..and I still never lowered myself to cheat. It's just not in me whatsoever. It says a LOT about ones character.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by page3000

Some of us have morals and values so I wouldn't try to label everyone like this. I have had trillions of chances to cheat and get away with it. I have been cheated on..and I still never lowered myself to cheat. It's just not in me whatsoever. It says a LOT about ones character.

I agree about not lowering yourself to cheat. It kinda makes me think about how we complain all of the time. I'm trying to catch myself when I start to complain even not verbal, just mentally thinking about it. We should try to not "lower" ourselves with complaints as well.

Wasn't a clean segue was it

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by page3000

Some of us have morals and values so I wouldn't try to label everyone like this. I have had trillions of chances to cheat and get away with it. I have been cheated on..and I still never lowered myself to cheat. It's just not in me whatsoever. It says a LOT about ones character.

I totally agree - it's an issue of character and ethics - my marriage is composed of partners high on each

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by page3000

For those of you who say monogamy is a lie...I really feel sorry for you. You have preconditioned yourself to ALWAYS accept a lover/partner that will NEVER respect your trust..and whom will never show you loyalty.

Funny, I feel a lot more sorry for folks who don't know what a true marriage and committment is

[page3000]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Funny, I feel a lot more sorry for folks who don't know what a true marriage and committment is

Hey, they're missing out. It's the greatest thing in the world. To be in love and have unconditional trust and faith in just one person. I'm so glad I'm not living my life another way.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by ExPit

Take heart. Put you in the right situation, under the right circumstances with the right guy or girl, and most importantly, if you knew that you would never get caught, then you might be shocked to find that you too can be a liar.

An edit: if not you then maybe your significant other!

Think what you like - you don't know me or my spouse. I firmly believe that "even if" you think you'll never get caught doing the wrong thing - GOD always knows - and personally I wouldn't want to disappoint Him

[RichardPudmann]

Don't take the cheater back.

[Stac2007]

Years ago when I was 20 I was the object of a fast screw. I was hanging with my friends at a local bar when an attractive slightly older woman (26) hit on me. We ended up taking and drinking all night. We went back to her car and drove some where to have sex. We went at it 123 and without using birth control. We were pretty drunk to think straight. When she dropped me off at home (I left my jeep at home) I asked her name and number. She told me she was Mrs. So and So. I recall feeling really sick having just found out I had sex with a married woman with young children. I was the object of her cheating and felt so dirty. My friends told me it was a great complement to be chosen by a pretty young wife but I never saw it that way. I never saw her again any way. Funny thing is that she never wore her wedding ring. Something I always checked before approaching a woman.