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I dont care about his age, so you can stop mentioning that for a start.And i'm not sure about the rest of it yet. I've spent sometime alone with him since aswell, which i hadnt done, and we got along well.
And no i dont drink, only very rarely, i'm offended you think i drink alot.
And who said we are/will get married ? We've only just met.
I didn't feel the need to respond in this thread (everybody else was doing quite well with the winking question,) but once drugs were mentioned, that changed. You need to stay away from this person. Anybody who is into drugs will not put you first. Even if it appears you are first, after a while, it will change. Cocaine is extremely addictive and pretty expensive, also. You risk legal trouble if you are with him and his drug stash is found. I'm sure you don't want that. He's gotta buy the stuff somewhere and often it's from unsavory people in unsavory areas of town. I'm sure you don't want that. Going out with him is really not a good idea, IMO.
at 40 you are a "dirty old man"?
Unfortunately, in some cases, yes.
I had a girlfriend who left me when I was 43 (now I'm 53, in other words I'm Methuselem for any women under 40, I guess), and one of the reasons, she told me, was that I was too old...and she was...35 yo! (with the mentality of a 15 yo I reckon)
while I was at school me, my friends and my crush was talking. Then when I asked him for tape and no one else was looking he winked at me about three or four times. What do you think that means.
while I was at school me, my friends and my crush was talking. Then when I asked him for tape and no one else was looking he winked at me about three or four times. What do you think that means.
while I was at school me, my friends and my crush was talking. Then when I asked him for tape and no one else was looking he winked at me about three or four times. What do you think that means.
He had an eyelash in his eye and he was trying to dislodge it.
He winked at you because he sees that you are very interested in him. He might be doing drugs, but men are not stupid , and can tell you are eye-balling him a little too closely. So he knows that you like him and is probably flattered. If he hasnt made any moves yet, then he might not be that interested. But you need to tell him that you mean business because rubbing your leg is his question on weather you are receptive to him or not. Probably he wants to know if you will become his lover, and is waiting for a response from you. However I would recommend against going for it, because men who do drugs want their women to do drugs with them and if your a clean person, your going to end up addicted and never being able to live life normally without the drugs.
All men want sex, thats a given. The question is weather or not you're willing to just have sex with him without a commitment, or ask for one. It seems to me that this man is not seriously interested in you, but wants to test the waters in hopes that you'll say that you will be his lover without strings attached. Anywho, if you like him, I dont see any reason why you cant ask for exclusivity and commitment from him. He might say yes, but dont beleive everything he says just because he says it. Make sure you dont get sucked into his world and end up addicted to anything.
And more than anything take care of yourself first. Since I do beleive you are infatuated with this man by the way you talk about him and let him touch you, I strongly suggest you think with your head before doing something you might regret the next morning.
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man in his 40s and doing drugs?
