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Im always seem to attract/get with Women that are bipolar or a little
Crazy.Things will start out great and then the Woman will go from..
Showing Affection,etc to being Distant,Cold.Like Flipping a Switch.
I normally wouldnt think of posting something like this on a public forum..
But i have no idea if theres something i can change in myself?
Just like getting insight from many people.
After many experiences with this i almost expect it.
Im not doing/saying anything to cause a change in Behavior..
Things will be going along fine then it happens!
Without knowing more about how you interact with these women, I think it's really tough to make any judgement or give any suggestions. Also, "bipolar" is a specific diagnosis, and I wonder if you really mean to say they are bipolar or just "moody". I have a little experience in a relationship with a bipolar person, and that switch-flipping isn't ringing any bells to me.
Without knowing more about how you interact with these women, I think it's really tough to make any judgement or give any suggestions. Also, "bipolar" is a specific diagnosis, and I wonder if you really mean to say they are bipolar or just "moody". I have a little experience in a relationship with a bipolar person, and that switch-flipping isn't ringing any bells to me.
Some of the women were actually Bipolar,Some were not..
I was just using that Term to convey what i meant.
Thats the best term i can think of.
Someone who is lovey-dovey one day and distant and cold the next..
And isnt even the same person.
I heard a discussion that some women with a bad childhood/Past..
Cant handle a good guy/stable relationship and will bail out of it.
They actually feel uncomfortable in a good relationship.
Some of the women were actually Bipolar,Some were not..
I was just using that Term to convey what i meant.
Thats the best term i can think of.
Someone who is lovey-dovey one day and distant and cold the next..
And isnt even the same person.
I heard a discussion that some women with a bad childhood/Past..
Cant handle a good guy/stable relationship and will bail out of it.
They actually feel uncomfortable in a good relationship.
Some of what you're describing sounds like it could be symptomatic of sexual abuse... ptsd... or something along those lines.
I have some experience with this. Through my teens and early twenties I seemed to be a magnet for women with some atypical psychiatric dynamics. I had no idea what was going on or why I always found myself trying to talk my girlfriend or date out of being a total looney. Hours of contemplation led to the conclusion that it was indeed something I was doing, or more specifically not doing. I was very lazy about pursuing girls. I learned in my early teens that women would eventually come to me as long as I maintained a calm, cool, friendly demeanor. The problem with this strategy is that well adjusted women want to be pursued. No one pursues the crazy ones, so they go after the guy who is approachable. The result is that lazy guys wind up with crazy women. If you want to get out of the bat-sh*t psychotic woman business, you need to liven up your game. Pick out a cute girl who is in at least good operating condition, kick the tires, light the fires, damn the torpedoes and chase her down.
Actually i used to listen to Loveline alot when adam was still on the show.
Dr Drew can read someone after talking with them for 2-3 Minutes!
He always talks about females with an abusive past needing drama and..
Needing to be with jerks.
Adam used to say something to callers like "listen screwball 3 things..
Dont get pregnant,Dont go lez and Find Jesus.
People will behave in a manner you will tolerate. It either works for you or it doesn't. If it's not working, don't stay around to complain.
Since my fiance is on the verge of being diagnosed with bi-polar (after years of me trying to get her to see someone), I couldnt disagree with you more.
As I explained to someone I know, I wouldnt leave my fiance if she was diagnosed with a physical illness like Cancer, mental illness is the same.
Sorry, but after 13 years of dating her, staying around to complain is the responsible thing to do if its something that is beyond their control.
I have my share of the crazies-PMS? Don't know. I wake up with pure h*ll in me for no apparent reason. And the bf is the first one to catch it. Let him tell it, I'm completely mad
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WHAT? Us? Bipolar? Nooooo... hehehehe - okay, maybe two days a month LOL I like to call it "emotional" LOL
