THE "VIRGIN" thread! (guy, kissing, wife, boyfriend)

[Ron.]

LK,

I don't follow your post. Are you responding to my post? I never said anything about you being immoral.

Originally Posted by lionking

you know,you may see me as immoral for the way I lost it or other people also,or even some subsequent flings I had but "being" with someone even for a short term doesn't mean there is no affection.I mean some of my past girlfriends I didn't know if it would last or not but I went with the flow.I mean what if I hold off 10 years after meeting someone to know if they are "right" then 10 years latter it falls apart anyway?

And I don't think I was "cold" because I said up front what the deal was regarding my one night stand as a youngin' loosing my virginity.

I have been with women in flings and while I didn't love them as "in love" I treated them as "right" as I could with affection and caring.

Hey,if some of you can hold out through the best years of your life waiting for that special someone to come along that just grabs your heart then do what you think is right.I will take it as it comes,and hold the people I have known in my own memories of life.

meh,whatever............

[lionking]

sorry for the confusion.Im standing up for you to what the person said to you.Because I like you,lost it to someone I didn't love.


But it was the right moment in time for me to loose it and we all must make that dtermination for ourselves whether some one agrees with it or not.

[lionking]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Affection cannot compare to real love - and it would not be enough for me personally.

I guess I'm just old school - sex without love it like food without salt or any seasonings, just bland and boring.

yes but what happens if you refuse food all together for too long waiting for your favorite meal to be served?

Or what if you refused food period because you were told that you have a favorite food you are suppose to like and after you finally get that one type of food you find out you don't like it

gawd that doesn't really make sense though,what I just said?Gotta excuse my reasoning today,I was up most of the night last night indulging in a new dish I recently met so Im kinda lacking in sleep right now

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by lionking

yes but what happens if you refuse food all together for too long waiting for your favorite meal to be served?

gawd that doesn't really make sense though,what I just said?Gotta excuse my reasoning today,I was up most of the night last night indulging in a new dish I recently met so Im kinda lacking in sleep right now

Why? Makes perfect sense at least to me (be very afraid when something makes sense to me ). One may stay on a diet for a while, but starving forever may be a lil' bit excessive.

[RangerDuke08]

Originally Posted by artsyguy

[veuvegirl]

Originally Posted by leslie_downs

this goes to the guys...do you tend to have a bond or some type of connection to the girl you lost your virginity to orrr will always have feelings for her, and what kind of 'feelings'? i know many girls can, but am wondering how it is for the guys. as in a relationship were at one time you thought you loved the girl then you realized that you didnt when you found the love of your life...

Every person is different. You cannot generalize. There are guys that will just 'do it' to get it over with. There are guys that do it with their first love, there will guys who will do it with someone who they like. The bond between each person is special and unique...

[hnsq]

The question in my mind is what is the point of sex? I am not sure it is just to do something that feels good...

[jimboburnsy]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

I guess I'm just old school - sex without love it like food without salt or any seasonings, just bland and boring.

But sometimes its like a jalapeno: Hot, sweaty, not requiring any additional seasoning and leads to painful elimination a day later.

[drjones96]

I remember her...barely. It was 14 years ago. I met her at a high school related convention in Orlando, Florida. I was from Missouri, she was from Texas. She was hispanic (or maybe only partly hispanic...I don't really know). We hit it off...We were just hanging out in a hotel room. My room mates were all there watching TV with us. A friend of mine asked me if I would like some privacy. I was like,"what for?" Then he dragged the other guys out of the room. All of a sudden I was in a different situation. I had no idea when I woke up that morning that I was going to lose it.

I don't really have any kind of special connection with her. I remember what she looks like. I remember her name (first and last). But other than that...not much of any sort of connection. I suppose I feel obligated to remember her name. There were a few after her that I can't seem to remember their names.

[Ron.]

LK, thanks.

I appreciate it. My appologies for the misunderstanding.


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Originally Posted by lionking

sorry for the confusion.Im standing up for you to what the person said to you.Because I like you,lost it to someone I didn't love.


But it was the right moment in time for me to loose it and we all must make that dtermination for ourselves whether some one agrees with it or not.