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06-21-2008, 10:13 AM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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Guys: Is this a turn-on or turn-off?
How do guys feel about the woman making the first move?
It could be as harmless as being the first person to say hey or it could have more intent behind it such as a woman asking a guy if he wants to go out to eat, go somewhere with her to an event, etc.
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06-21-2008, 10:18 AM
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C.D. Court Jester
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Tennessee
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When I was single I liked when a women made the first move, I might have just wanted it to be a friendship at times but nothing wrong with more friends.
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06-21-2008, 10:54 AM
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There's beauty in the solace of not giving a damn.
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Chicago
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It's the 21st century. Women making the first move isn't even remotely controversial any more. In fact, women almost have to make the first move because men are practically paralyzed thanks to the proliferation of grievance-mongering women who will shout "HARRASSMENT!" at the barest hint of a male showing any interest in them.
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06-21-2008, 11:00 AM
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yes, i am pretty nerdy.
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: Edgewater, Chicago
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I don't know. Whenever I've made the first move guys have tended to run far far away in the other direction. It must be me.  |
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06-21-2008, 11:04 AM
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ichigo ichie 1 time 1 meeting unprecedented
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: southern california
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cuando la perra es brava hasta los de la casa muerde
(when the female dog is aggressive, she will bite everybody
right up to the family in the house)
not everything pretty is harmless
pdclipart.com
free clipart
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06-21-2008, 11:12 AM
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There's beauty in the solace of not giving a damn.
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Chicago
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What the hell is with the tiger picture in every one of your posts?
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06-21-2008, 11:18 AM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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It feels interesting to me when that happens and likely a turn on to a normal single guy, if the guy might find the girl/woman appealling.
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06-21-2008, 11:29 AM
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Senior Member
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: IL
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Depends on if she's smoking hot, its a turn on for me.  If she's not my type in any way then its a turn off. If we're both on the same levels as far as looks, personality, etc its nuetral for me. |
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06-21-2008, 11:31 AM
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BreakOnThruToTheOtherSide
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: in my imagination
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I prefere it.There are different ways to make a move to let me know though.  |
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06-21-2008, 12:32 PM
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Not a member
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Join Date: Dec 2007
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I guess that would be my biggest turn on. The only thing that would turn me off is if she wanted kids.
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