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Old 06-22-2008, 12:25 PM
 
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I find it very easy to avoid women, whether they're attractive or not, whether they're around my age or not. I just don't trust them too well.

Each attractive girl I pass, I get real suspicious that they're aren't my type and might cause trouble. I don't even try to approach or talk to them, no matter how good they look.

Are a majority of women untrustworthy and unfaithful?
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:28 PM
 
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Couldn't find enough trouble criticizing children so you had to start on women? Seriously, what are you hoping to accomplish here?
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:29 PM
 
Location: England
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You should stop looking at women like they're an alien species!!! We are people too, just like you. Some men are trustworthy some are not. some women are trustworthy some are not.

Try being FRIENDS with women first. Don't worry about anything else - you need to get to the basics first. You sound very young and inexperience with life.
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:30 PM
 
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You should stop looking at women like they're an alien species!!! We are people too, just like you. Some men are trustworthy some are not. some women are trustworthy some are not.

Try being FRIENDS with women first. Don't worry about anything else - you need to get to the basics first. You sound very young and inexperience with life.
I had a girlfriend before, back in high school. It didn't work out.
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:33 PM
 
Location: England
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I had a girlfriend before, back in high school. It didn't work out.
I'm not talking about GIRLFRIENDS more about just being friends with girls. Not all relationships work out - it is sad when they don't, don't let it put you off. You have to kiss a lot of Frogettes before you kiss your princess.....
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:39 PM
 
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I find it very easy to avoid women, whether they're attractive or not, whether they're around my age or not. I just don't trust them too well.

Each attractive girl I pass, I get real suspicious that they're aren't my type and might cause trouble. I don't even try to approach or talk to them, no matter how good they look.

Are a majority of women untrustworthy and unfaithful?


If I were you, I'd start with the man in the mirror (I know, not very original)
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:43 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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I had a girlfriend before, back in high school. It didn't work out.
No. First of all, most high school romances never work out.

IMO you need to have some close good platonic (non-sexual) female friends first. They can even be older than you. And until you can be friends with at least one woman, you will never have any success with dating them. This is based on what I have read of your posts.

Baby steps first little grasshopper!
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Bay Area
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I don't think one answer will fit every guy. Completely depends on your personality and how outgoing you are. Same answer for the latter part of your question. Maybe you feel the majority of women are untrustworthy and potential problems because that's been your experience with the majority of women you've met so far. But the same label can't be put on everybody- like "all men are cheaters and liars." Doesn't work that way and isn't true. You'll be more apt to believe there are genuinely good ones out there once you get an oppurtunity to meet them and have this proven to you. Then what you know to be true now will change.
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:50 PM
 
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I don't think one answer will fit every guy. Completely depends on your personality and how outgoing you are. Same answer for the latter part of your question. Maybe you feel the majority of women are untrustworthy and potential problems because that's been your experience with the majority of women you've met so far. But the same label can't be put on everybody- like "all men are cheaters and liars." Doesn't work that way and isn't true. You'll be more apt to believe there are genuinely good ones out there once you get an oppurtunity to meet them and have this proven to you. Then what you know to be true now will change.
My dating pool is pretty limited to certain types of women.
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Old 06-22-2008, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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My dating pool is pretty limited to certain types of women.
Lemme tell ya what your dating pool looks like:



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