Sexuality and attraction...

[nitokenshi]

Originally Posted by nodixieforme

Again, I agree with you, but many people are unwilling to admit what you've stated here.

Yea I know it seems kinda crazy how societies so long ago like the Roman Empire were so free nobody attached labels to themselves but look at us today it is all about labels.

[the one]

NWlilPP guy is right!!! i hate seeing black men with white women! its just unnatural! they should not even have kids. god knows what they will look like. and if they MUST do such an abnormal thing, they better do it in their bedrooms.

i dont want to see them holding hands, kissing, necking or whatever.

and they better keep their half breeds away from me.

i just dont agree with this lifestyle choice, and god agrees with me (or so he did in the era of antimiscegenation)!!!

DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?

i was being sarcastic folks. just showing how ignorant a view like that is. everything that homeboy says about the gays is what was said about interracial marriage. it aint led to the destruction of society has it? well in Ch. Hestons mind yes, but hes over and done with. dinasours like him and falwell and all them loonies need to just stay away from us normal people. serisouly

now back to the topic at hand

GUYS flirt with everthing. that does not mean they intend to follow thru.

it is just teasing and playing. i have been in many homosocial environs (all male), like locker rooms, on sports teams, in frats, at schools, etc and guys always tease eachother. even when there are women around. it will always be the good looking guys who need the reassurance that they are good lookin, even if it means coming from a gay. thats how much more vain men are than woman. they take it from anywhere.

now the not so hot guys will be the ones to be like "dont look at me like that dude, im not gay" when the gay aint even lookin at them. i think it is more about some insecurity.

but guys do this all the time. there is no need to egg them on or reciprocate. just perk your butt a lil, laugh it off and say "Oh biff you and your games..."

and if they are trully gay, bi, try or curious, then let them make the first move. dont fall into the trap a lot of my gays make. they chase unattainable guys. dont chase that cat man. put out some kibble and let the pu$$y come ur way (only a metaphor, not a real nani nani)

dont think anything of it. just laugh it off or remind them "dont say it unless you mean it" that will stop with all these unwarranted sexual advances and harrassments.

[nodixieforme]

Originally Posted by the one

NWlilPP guy is right!!! i hate seeing black men with white women! its just unnatural! they should not even have kids. god knows what they will look like. and if they MUST do such an abnormal thing, they better do it in their bedrooms.

i dont want to see them holding hands, kissing, necking or whatever.

and they better keep their half breeds away from me.

i just dont agree with this lifestyle choice, and god agrees with me (or so he did in the era of antimiscegenation)!!!

DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?

i was being sarcastic folks. just showing how ignorant a view like that is. everything that homeboy says about the gays is what was said about interracial marriage. it aint led to the destruction of society has it? well in Ch. Hestons mind yes, but hes over and done with. dinasours like him and falwell and all them loonies need to just stay away from us normal people. serisouly

now back to the topic at hand

GUYS flirt with everthing. that does not mean they intend to follow thru.

it is just teasing and playing. i have been in many homosocial environs (all male), like locker rooms, on sports teams, in frats, at schools, etc and guys always tease eachother. even when there are women around. it will always be the good looking guys who need the reassurance that they are good lookin, even if it means coming from a gay. thats how much more vain men are than woman. they take it from anywhere.

now the not so hot guys will be the ones to be like "dont look at me like that dude, im not gay" when the gay aint even lookin at them. i think it is more about some insecurity.

but guys do this all the time. there is no need to egg them on or reciprocate. just perk your butt a lil, laugh it off and say "Oh biff you and your games..."

and if they are trully gay, bi, try or curious, then let them make the first move. dont fall into the trap a lot of my gays make. they chase unattainable guys. dont chase that cat man. put out some kibble and let the pu$$y come ur way (only a metaphor, not a real nani nani)

dont think anything of it. just laugh it off or remind them "dont say it unless you mean it" that will stop with all these unwarranted sexual advances and harrassments.

This is probably the most accurate, true response I've gotten. Thanks for being upfront and honest about it, instead of denying/questioning my experiences. What you say about men and the way they behave is spot on.