I feel sick..... (woman, kiss, kids, friend)

[Lindsey_Mcfarren]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I would wait until he sleeps this off and talk to him in the morning.
Some people just cannot drink. I cannot drink hard liquor. Everytime I do, I turn mean as well. Now, I`m ok if I drink my wine, or beer, but no hard alcohol, like JB, or tequilla, rum, vodka, etc.

Its amazing how differently it effects people, I get REALLY friendly and my clothes tend to fall off. This is why I rarely drink AND never around people I don't know well.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I would wait until he sleeps this off and talk to him in the morning.
Some people just cannot drink. I cannot drink hard liquor. Everytime I do, I turn mean as well. Now, I`m ok if I drink my wine, or beer, but no hard alcohol, like JB, or tequilla, rum, vodka, etc.

Right. Some peoples bodies have an almost allergic reaction to alcohol - they just can't tolerate it. If she were able to make him understand this he could perhaps better understand the supreme importance of never drinking ANYTHING alcoholic ever again.

[veuvegirl]

Thanks everyone. We have two children, so as much as I would love to walk out of the house let him cool down, it isn't a possibility right now. I just told him I need my space and asked him to sleep in the guest room...

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by veuvegirl

Thanks everyone. We have two children, so as much as I would love to walk out of the house let him cool down, it isn't a possibility right now. I just told him I need my space and asked him to sleep in the guest room...

Just stay calm...take some deep breaths, keep typing to us

[lovesMountains]

There is plenty of time tomorrow or later for the conversation you guys need to have - don't let him bait you into it while he's been drinking like some drunks will do!

[veuvegirl]

Thanks lovesMountains. I am actually really calm. I just feel like my heart is broken. I went through one horrible relationship years ago and swore I would never let anyone treat me like this ever again.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by veuvegirl

Thanks lovesMountains. I am actually really calm. I just feel like my heart is broken. I went through one horrible relationship years ago and swore I would never let anyone treat me like this ever again.

Feeling sad is so normal in this situation And I feel sad for you.

It is good that you have your standards too! Refuse to be a doormat, that is very important.

[lovesMountains]

Plus he's letting you down, hurting your feelings and your marriage by his behavior - that's all huge stuff to take.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Lindsey_Mcfarren

Its amazing how differently it effects people, I get REALLY friendly and my clothes tend to fall off. This is why I rarely drink AND never around people I don't know well.

I wish that I was like that.

My husband likes his whiskey every now and again. He will always say,"why not take a few shots of what I`m having?" Riiigghhht.
If he wants to see me turn my head around backwards.
Right after we were married, we were drinking tequilla here at the house.
All I remember is laughing one minite, and next thing I knew, I was in the kitchen, ballin` my eyes out, accusing him of stupid crap.
Not for me, and I would recommend your husband realize this too.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

I wish that I was like that.

My husband likes his whiskey every now and again. He will always say,"why not take a few shots of what I`m having?" Riiigghhht.
If he wants to see me turn my head around backwards.
Right after we were married, we were drinking tequilla here at the house.
All I remember is laughing one minite, and next thing I knew, I was in the kitchen, ballin` my eyes out, accusing him of stupid crap.
Not for me, and I would recommend your husband realize this too.

Me personally, I have this weird extremely high tolerance to ANY stimulant or drug. Seriously, it's a problem when I have surgery and stuff. Like for pain control after a procedure if the regular person would get a percocet I get two dilaudid, LOL. So, when it comes to alcohol it just does me no good to drink it AT all. If I do drink it I'd have to drink so much to get any kind of buzz that my liver and gallbladder start complaining and give me horrible heartburn!!! So, I just don't even bother, LOL!