who has it worse - unattractive men or women? (kiss, friend, attraction)

[Gudra]

Last line says it all..

[woi2ld]

Originally Posted by k374

Who do you think experience more difficulties landing a date, unattractive men or women?

unatractive men have to pay for it..............an ugly woman can still get it for free.

talking about tha date of course

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by seeniorita

Yes it does.....quite nicely I might add.


I never said women didn't care about looks....I said they were more forgiving. I would imagine if women had such exacting standards when it came to looks, our population would be much smaller.

lol where exactly do you have proof that Men are much more superfical and women are more forgiving?

The threads you are talking about were pictures of famous women Men found attractive women had a thread like that to and believe me they werent many "average Joe" pictures in there

I see ugly and average women with Men all the time so all these guys holding out for supermodels must be "settling" nowadays

[Cherie Tebo]

Originally Posted by k374

Who do you think experience more difficulties landing a date, unattractive men or women?

Unattractive to me would be more in someone having a ugly personally.Looks are in the eye of the beholder.

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

lol where exactly do you have proof that Men are much more superfical and women are more forgiving?

The threads you are talking about were pictures of famous women Men found attractive women had a thread like that to and believe me they werent many "average Joe" pictures in there

I see ugly and average women with Men all the time so all these guys holding out for supermodels must be "settling" nowadays

Well that goes both ways partner.....all of us can't have the hard-body, gorgeous super-model types can we?....so I guess instead of "settling" it's more like facing "reality" But hey, that's what dreams are made for!

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by seeniorita

Well that goes both ways partner.....all of us can't have the hard-body, gorgeous super-model types can we?....so I guess instead of "settling" it's more like facing "reality" But hey, that's what dreams are made for!

My point is both threads were made for peoples "fantasy" Men or Women and both posts had way above average looking people in it for fantasy reasons..Doesnt prove at all that Men are more superficial..

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

My point is both threads were made for peoples "fantasy" Men or Women and both posts had way above average looking people in it for fantasy reasons..Doesnt prove at all that Men are more superficial..

Ok...you're right....i'm wrong...is that what you want to hear? Which proves another theory of mine but that's for another thread another day.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by seeniorita

Ok...you're right....i'm wrong...is that what you want to hear?

Well clearly since you posted the eye roll at me instead of answering what i said you are right

[solytaire]

I remember reading the research from studies from about 4 or 5 years ago that actually mounted quite a bit of evidence showing that while men DESIRE a certain level of attractiveness in women, women actually REQUIRE a certain level of attractiveness in order for them to move forward with a relationship. Although the STATED physical preferences of men are much more demanding, men have been shown to lower their standards considerably in real world terms when contrasted with who they actually settle for. Women on the other hand were shown to adhere to their preferences, even in the event that it meant that they likely wouldnt find a partner at all, who fit their preferences. For the purposes of finding love, men are more pragmatic in that sense.

[seeniorita]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Well clearly since you posted the eye roll at me instead of answering what i said you are right

Awww....JBT1980 thank you!