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yeah, you're gonna have to get used to "people" if you want to find a job. Best of luck!
People are really causing a heart attack. I'm just here for information, but no, people always want to argue with me.
If I'm having a conversation with someone, one user interferes and it always leave to an argument. And people are enabling others to think I'm here to cause trouble, which I'm trying not to.
People are really causing a heart attack. I'm just here for information, but no, people always want to argue with me.
If I'm having a conversation with someone, one user interferes and it always leave to an argument. And people are enabling others to think I'm here to cause trouble, which I'm trying not to.
Then I might suggest that you check out the way you respond to things. It would be the same way as disciplining someone and trying to get your point across.. it does not always have to be demeaning...
Then I might suggest that you check out the way you respond to things. It would be the same way as disciplining someone and trying to get your point across.. it does not always have to be demeaning...
I wasn't always like this. I normally don't respond negativily unless others do it first. People ask why I'm so negative.
I wasn't always like this. I normally don't respond negativily unless others do it first. People ask why I'm so negative.
I don't like responding negativily.
Could be the fact that you are currently unemployed and tired of looking for a job.. I dont know.. but remember .. negative energy begets negative energy.. change your outlook on life and things will turn for the best.
Could be the fact that you are currently unemployed and tired of looking for a job.. I dont know.. but remember .. negative energy begets negative energy.. change your outlook on life and things will turn for the best.
No, its the females, seeing how they are. Dealing with females at school and on the internet is the reason. And people on here are trying make my membership going downward.
yes...very well aware of the "codependency" cycle that most nurses fall into, being caretakers by nature. and am making a conscientious effort to be learn what it is about me that seems to attract the helpless, needy, unemployed, dirtbroke, uninspired, unambitious, and lazy men.
regardless of the fact that i am a healthcare professional, college graduate, multi-llingual, world-traveled, and think that i carry myself well, it's just amazing how these men can pick me out of the crowd. i am very "amicable" socially-very friendly, outgoing, talkative,and never ignore people regardless of what "type" they are, so i'm easy to approach...it's just funny how these guys seem to have more "guts" to approach than the ones who are successful professionals (matter of fact, one of my male friends who is very successful/wealthy etc, who i dated a few times, told me that if i had not approached him, he would have never approached me-and i asked him why, and he said "because you seem like you got it all together, and have it all, and i would have assumed that you are already taken"....maybe the unemployed guys just have nothing to lose????
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Originally Posted by 20yrsinBranson
bellestaroftexas, you are a nurse and one of the qualities of a nurse is helping people who are sick and hurt. Of course, you need to understand that this does not translate into your personal romantic life. You are attracted to men who NEED you. Not to men who are strong, independent, and financially secure/responsible.
Sadly, we cannot often control who we are attracted to. For years (and two husbands and multiple boyfriends) I was hopelessly attracted to Aquarius men. But I could not stand their personality traits (if that makes any sense). Finally, after many long, miserable relationships I had to make the decision to see out a different type of man. So I did. Now I am happy.
You need to consciously seek out men who are the way you WANT them to be and avoid (like the plague) pathetic (but very sweet) men who are just going to dig you another financial hole.
20yrsinBranson
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I'm all about a level playing field. 
