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Old 03-10-2013, 05:49 AM
 
Location: The back alleys of Hong Kong and sometimes Brussels, Belgium
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I see so many of you saying you will never date again, or you'll give up on love. I have seen you people say this bulls*it for years, and yet you still get married or find someone to fill your every need or desire for a moment/phase in life, yet to get divorced after 2 years of marraige or ending it after the one you loved cheated, chated, or some other sh*t as we all get to read about it on facebook. Me, I don't care about that lovelife thing anymore. If you have no purpose in this world except to impress some Woman/Man then what is your life about? Your life is all in her/him, and not what God intended it to be. Focus on your plans, your own dreams, and your own fuc*ing destiny because most of the 'chicks' / 'dudes' you're going after in life only care about how they can convince people to be as pathetic as them, how they can get by the easy way, or how they can or did come up on some other person's success or dreams. Let It Go!


Listen to some inspiration, WHILE YOU JUDGE IT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6p3TCZaX35I

Time to overcome the darkness, beleive in yourself, and move into GreaTness!!!
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Old 03-10-2013, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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The delivery is a bit harsh, but there is a whole lot of truth in what he's saying. This is a great message. Thanks for sharing!
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Old 03-10-2013, 06:21 AM
 
Location: The back alleys of Hong Kong and sometimes Brussels, Belgium
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This world is afraid of the truth, never be afraid of your truth
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Old 03-10-2013, 06:38 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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Amen!
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Old 03-10-2013, 07:27 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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He lost me at Stone Wall Jackson and killing people. I turned off the video.
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Old 03-10-2013, 11:50 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I see so many of you saying you will never date again, or you'll give up on love. I have seen you people say this bulls*it for years,
You only joined in January, but you've seen people on the forum say this stuff for years?

Really?



I call foul.
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Old 03-10-2013, 12:01 PM
 
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I think some people are just way too dependent and can't handle being alone in the world. I know PLENTY of people that will be with anyone, no matter how much that person sucks and no matter how incompatible they are together, just to not feel alone. Pathetic really.
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Old 03-10-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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You only joined in January, but you've seen people on the forum say this stuff for years?

Really?



I call foul.
There is such a thing as lurkers.

I don't think the OP was harsh at all, just passionate and he has a point. The harder you try to impress people the faster it will get you nowhere. When I started just doing things for my self and stop trying so hard to find a GF, I actually started getting a bit more attention.

Get in better shape because you want to be healthy
Advance in your career because you want to live a better life.
Act the same way you would when you have an audience when no one is around.

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Old 03-10-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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There is such a thing as lurkers.
Not buying it. If he'd been lurking for years, he'd know the kind of language he used in his OP is not normally accepted here.
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Old 03-10-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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Not buying it. If he'd been lurking for years, he'd know the kind of language he used in his OP is not normally accepted here.
Even if that's the case, people still use that language here regardless. Perhaps he meant you people in a general sense, who knows.
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