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Old 07-12-2008, 11:38 PM
 
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I think every single women has some sort of beauty about them in the outside. Whether they be fat or skinny, short or tall every women has some feature that stands out and is beautiful. I also understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think I can spot a woman who is a natural beauty , hot, or just average. The difference between a hot girl and an average girl is that a hot girl usually has everything going on in terms of features most men look for like the booty, breasts, face, legs, while an average girl usually is working with something but not much else.

Than there are women who just have that unique look that appeals to every man like a magnet. These are the women who don't have to put on makeup and they will still look more glamorous than hot girls. Natural beauties when they age still look beautiful and have everything going on, along with special qualities that make them stand out even more.

How rare is it to encounter these natural beauties? I really do think over the past seven years I have only met 3 or 4 natural beauties. I developed a relationship with two of them in the past and I am kicking myself in the head to this day for letting them go. I am realizing that they are rare to encounter in the real world. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, and usually what they have going on the outside disappears when they go through some life event, and you know average girls with average looks are just average and they are common too.

So guys out there would you rather go after a natural beauty, a hot girl, or women with just average looks? My guess is most of you in a relationship are with women with average looks, because they are easy to approach and less likely to reject you cause they probably don't have huge standards compared to hot girls. However, average looking girls tend to have more substance compared to hot girls so that is probably another reason why they are more appealing than hot girls who just have their looks to fall back on. In any case I think I am going to wait for that natural or classic beauty to come my way.

For you ladies, out of all the categories that I listed what fit's you? Are you a natural beauty which I highly doubt, still a hot girl or used to be a hot girl, or a woman with just average looks, nothing special but probably some guy will like you for who you are?
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Old 07-12-2008, 11:48 PM
 
Location: DFW - Coppell / Las Colinas
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I learned years ago to always go after the not so hot babe. The hot one is usually higher maintenance, has relied on her looks & not developed a personality and many times pretty poor in bed.

The average girl has had to develop a personality, skills, a laugh, a brain and most importantly is usually works hard to be fantastic in bed. The average girl usually has less guys hanging around and likes the attention.

I think this is where guys drop the ball by always going after the super hot babes.

There are of course exceptions to all the above.
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Old 07-13-2008, 12:03 AM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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I think every single women has some sort of beauty about them in the outside. Whether they be fat or skinny, short or tall every women has some feature that stands out and is beautiful. I also understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think I can spot a woman who is a natural beauty , hot, or just average. The difference between a hot girl and an average girl is that a hot girl usually has everything going on in terms of features most men look for like the booty, breasts, face, legs, while an average girl usually is working with something but not much else.

Than there are women who just have that unique look that appeals to every man like a magnet. These are the women who don't have to put on makeup and they will still look more glamorous than hot girls. Natural beauties when they age still look beautiful and have everything going on, along with special qualities that make them stand out even more.

How rare is it to encounter these natural beauties? I really do think over the past seven years I have only met 3 or 4 natural beauties. I developed a relationship with two of them in the past and I am kicking myself in the head to this day for letting them go. I am realizing that they are rare to encounter in the real world. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, and usually what they have going on the outside disappears when they go through some life event, and you know average girls with average looks are just average and they are common too.

So guys out there would you rather go after a natural beauty, a hot girl, or women with just average looks? My guess is most of you in a relationship are with women with average looks, because they are easy to approach and less likely to reject you cause they probably don't have huge standards compared to hot girls. However, average looking girls tend to have more substance compared to hot girls so that is probably another reason why they are more appealing than hot girls who just have their looks to fall back on. In any case I think I am going to wait for that natural or classic beauty to come my way.

For you ladies, out of all the categories that I listed what fit's you? Are you a natural beauty which I highly doubt, still a hot girl or used to be a hot girl, or a woman with just average looks, nothing special but probably some guy will like you for who you are?
I was married to a gorgeous woman. The fact she was helped mask a lot of charactor defects. I suggest any young man think long term personality wise before going ga-ga over beauty.
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Old 07-13-2008, 12:20 AM
 
Location: AR
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Natural beauty. Amazingly "hot" girls are usually too absorbed in themselves. And sleeping with two other people besides you.
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Old 07-13-2008, 12:23 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I learned years ago to always go after the not so hot babe. The hot one is usually higher maintenance, has relied on her looks & not developed a personality and many times pretty poor in bed.

The average girl has had to develop a personality, skills, a laugh, a brain and most importantly is usually works hard to be fantastic in bed. The average girl usually has less guys hanging around and likes the attention.

I think this is where guys drop the ball by always going after the super hot babes.

There are of course exceptions to all the above.
Like the song goes "If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife"

Enough said.
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Old 07-13-2008, 12:34 AM
 
Location: Road Warrior
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I dated nothing but supermodel material girls back in my days. I found out it to be true, more drama, less action and by 25-26 or so it hit me when I met some "inner beauties" that they were very "pleasant" in all manners, including the first Big Girl I dated, although I have been spoiled rotten to still be attracted to HOT girls, I simply go for the above average in looks and not the tens any longer. My life has been more promising ever since.
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Old 07-13-2008, 01:17 AM
 
Location: rain city
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Years ago I had a roommate who was a beautiful woman, a model. Even as a woman, I was taken in by her looks and ease. She was a divorced with a young son. They moved in to share the house.

Before long her real self became evident. She was a user, a gold digger, and completely absorbed in her looks and what they could get for her. She had no regard for others and ignored her son. I came to realize she was a completely evil person and eventually had to go to court to evict her from the house after she refused to pay the rent, ran up hundreds of dollars of phone bills, had a parade of men through the house, drank furiously, and often left me with her son for days.

That was 25 years ago and I'll never forget her. One of the best looking women I've ever known. And the nastiest.
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Old 07-13-2008, 01:23 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Years ago I had a roommate who was a beautiful woman, a model. Even as a woman, I was taken in by her looks and ease. She was a divorced with a young son. They moved in to share the house.

Before long her real self became evident. She was a user, a gold digger, and completely absorbed in her looks and what they could get for her. She had no regard for others and ignored her son. I came to realize she was a completely evil person and eventually had to go to court to evict her from the house after she refused to pay the rent, ran up hundreds of dollars of phone bills, had a parade of men through the house, drank furiously, and often left me with her son for days.

That was 25 years ago and I'll never forget her. One of the best looking women I've ever known. And the nastiest.
Yes,

I'm truly impressed with nice people. I've actually met a few that happened to be attractive as well.
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Old 07-13-2008, 02:31 AM
 
Location: VA
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I dated nothing but supermodel material girls back in my days. I found out it to be true, more drama, less action and by 25-26 or so it hit me when I met some "inner beauties" that they were very "pleasant" in all manners, including the first Big Girl I dated, although I have been spoiled rotten to still be attracted to HOT girls, I simply go for the above average in looks and not the tens any longer. My life has been more promising ever since.
You sound like a 15 year old boy that wants to date those supermodels. That or someone that's the opposite of modest... what's the word...
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Old 07-13-2008, 06:23 AM
 
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I think every single women has some sort of beauty about them in the outside. Whether they be fat or skinny, short or tall every women has some feature that stands out and is beautiful. I also understand beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think I can spot a woman who is a natural beauty , hot, or just average. The difference between a hot girl and an average girl is that a hot girl usually has everything going on in terms of features most men look for like the booty, breasts, face, legs, while an average girl usually is working with something but not much else.

Than there are women who just have that unique look that appeals to every man like a magnet. These are the women who don't have to put on makeup and they will still look more glamorous than hot girls. Natural beauties when they age still look beautiful and have everything going on, along with special qualities that make them stand out even more.

How rare is it to encounter these natural beauties? I really do think over the past seven years I have only met 3 or 4 natural beauties. I developed a relationship with two of them in the past and I am kicking myself in the head to this day for letting them go. I am realizing that they are rare to encounter in the real world. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, and usually what they have going on the outside disappears when they go through some life event, and you know average girls with average looks are just average and they are common too.

So guys out there would you rather go after a natural beauty, a hot girl, or women with just average looks? My guess is most of you in a relationship are with women with average looks, because they are easy to approach and less likely to reject you cause they probably don't have huge standards compared to hot girls. However, average looking girls tend to have more substance compared to hot girls so that is probably another reason why they are more appealing than hot girls who just have their looks to fall back on. In any case I think I am going to wait for that natural or classic beauty to come my way.

For you ladies, out of all the categories that I listed what fit's you? Are you a natural beauty which I highly doubt, still a hot girl or used to be a hot girl, or a woman with just average looks, nothing special but probably some guy will like you for who you are?
is anyone else offended or annoyed at some of these commenets?
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