married woman loves married man (boyfriend, cheat, children, advice)

[undertheironsea]

Originally Posted by shooshoo80

HI ... i guess that myenglish language is good .... so it's either yr language is sooooooo bad ..or u don't have time or gutts to resume reading till the end of my letter

anyway thnx 4 trying

omgz, im sorryz that wuz rude of me to do that to u

thnx 4 undrstdnaing im gonna go text my bff now LATERZ

[undertheironsea]

Originally Posted by LAFan

I think most married women are condoned to commiting adultery. If you like him that much, divorce and get with him.

Are you a raging whiny weiner by birth or did you work to get to this level?

[wclac]

Are you a stalker that everytime you reply to my post, it's always harassment or just like to complain?

Originally Posted by undertheironsea

Are you a raging whiny weiner by birth or did you work to get to this level?

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by shooshoo80

please i need a reply for my problem , but plzzzzzzzz don't type an answer that is talking about ethics, morality & consequences of infedility ..

...blah, blah, blah....

Help. i just need to know does he really love me & how to win him back

Okay, I've deleted the unnecessary parts of your post and reduced the problem to it's core.

Problem: You and he, married to other people, were cheating. He was/is using you sexually without emotion. You're all confused and tried to stop; he walks away; you want him back. How do you do it?

Answer: Constructive answers do not exist without interjecting, as you refer to it, "ethics, morality & consequences of infidelity."

~Mike (was going to provide a destructive answer but decided against it because you have enough problems)

[moonsavvy]

Well I think I just had my drama fix for the month, thanks!

[Jefetio]

I think this post is actually a joke, because it made me laugh my A off.

[undertheironsea]

Originally Posted by LAFan

Are you a stalker that everytime you reply to my post, it's always harassment or just like to complain?

You just seem to show up in every other thread, talking about how terrible marriage will be or kids are or something to that effect. Almost every damn thread. We get it. Quit being so negative, for pete's sake kid. I'm just trying to stop your whining, since you're as young as you can be and have so much life ahead of you it's not even funny.

[Raggy dee Ann]

Originally Posted by shooshoo80

please i need a reply for my problem , but plzzzzzzzz don't type an answer that is talking about ethics, morality & consequences of infedility .. i just need to know does he really love me & how to win him back ..We were work colleagues since 2002 i was single & he was married couple of months when we firstly met , we started out as friends & were flirting together , we had great chemistry .. then i got engaged to another work colleague .. he was upset but he didn't say it out loud he just began to avoid talking with me or making eye contact ..he took 20 days off from work & went on a trip to US & when he came back it seemed that we both couldn't hold our feelings as we missed each other so we kissed passionately in the work place !!! ..i responded to his kiss for a while but then pushed him & said it was wrong we shouldn't as i am engaged & he's married ... i don't know how it was happening but since then we were kissing & hugging in workplace as we weren't able to c each other ouTside work ... i married in dec2003 when i came back from honey moon he was giving me the cold shoulder again & refusing to chat with me as we used since we r best friends .. then i went 2 him & told him why is he treating me like this we r friend ,, he told me u r married & i am trying to resist u then we looked 2 each other passionately & it started allover again .. the kissing & hugging ..he asked me once r u happier when u r with me or yr husband ??? - note we only were kissing & hugging - i told him i am happier with u ,, i asked him the same & he answered i am happier with u & i feel it's affecting my relation with my wife --- note that he doesnt love his wife & his family pushed him to marry her because she is sooooo rich , her father is a multi multi multi millionnaire -- lately in the mid of 2004 he left the work .. he told me u r the reason cuz i cant resist u & i dont want to cheat because it is not allowed by our religion the next week until he left he kept on kissing & hugging me so passionately as he never did,, i felt it though he never told me i felt the love ........ when he left i got dEpressed & my hormones go upside down causing me health problems ,,he stopped calling he only did once on my birthday & other to ask me if every thing is alright with my husband& when we met he gave me the cold shoulder .... i got pregnant in the beginning of 2006 then i know he was going to a place we went there once when he left the work & that he is hanging their gradually with some of our mutual friends ..so i started going there with my gfs when i was pregnant ,, he seemed happy to c me ...when i gave birth i disappeared 4 a total 4 months where i made a whole makeover with my hair i lost all birth weight ,,then i went there to our place , he was sitting alone this day .. when he saw me he was shocked , he kept on looking at me then he said do u know what i miss so much ? it's yr kiss ..i told him i miss him too .. i went to his private office & guess what we only kissed & he pushed me cuz he said he don't want to cheat .. i went to give him his birthday present 3 moths later & we kissed again & he pushed my clothes then he stopped saying we shouldn't do this & we should b together alone again ..... 2 months later he told me he wants me to do him massage therapy which i can do excellently ,, when i was massaging him he pushed me on the bed & kissed me wildly then pushed my head to do him a EXPLETIVE DELETED.. since mid 2007 till now we only met 6 times each time when we finish he says this should be the last time cuz this is wrong if u can dont come to our restaurant where we meet cuz i become weak when i c u .. but after a while he tells me he misses me & wants me to come to his office but always he refused to make an intercourse cuz it's prohibited to do it except with yr spouse - according to our religion or he get a punishment from the Lord - so what we r doing is only oral pleasure & foreplay for each other -- but now when i told him i missed him since we didnt meet since 3 months he told me i told u that it was the last time & i dont want to do this again i am afraid of Lord punishment .. dont open this discussion again ,, i told him ok no problem ,, i looked cold cuz i didnt want him 2 c me week but i have burning fire inside ..is there a way that i can get him into me again ..knowing that he still go to our place & wants to be beside me .. i am ignoring him but he is keeping his secret looking at me , he feels jealous when i flirt with other friends ... i want him to want me again ..... answer the question from the emotional side & don't interfere in infidelity matter i know each of us has his family & children but i love him sooo much i want to know does he love me ?? is there a chance that i can make him want to physically with me ?? what should i do to make him want those private moments with me ???

thanks a lot

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Have mercy!

What motivates people to respond and try and give advice to utter crap like this?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Raggy dee Ann

Have mercy!

What motivates people to respond and try and give advice to utter crap like this?

Responses like this are what cause people to respond - you just can't let some stuff stand unchallenged when it is so inaccurate:

LAFan
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I think most married women are condoned to commiting adultery. If you like him that much, divorce and get with him.

[bluegrassgirl]

Originally Posted by MIKEETC

Okay, I've deleted the unnecessary parts of your post and reduced the problem to it's core.

Problem: You and he, married to other people, were cheating. He was/is using you sexually without emotion. You're all confused and tried to stop; he walks away; you want him back. How do you do it?

Answer: Constructive answers do not exist without interjecting, as you refer to it, "ethics, morality & consequences of infidelity."

~Mike (was going to provide a destructive answer but decided against it because you have enough problems)

Excellent advice.... agree with everything you say. I'll add one additional thought - GROW UP!!!!