Black men and white women (jealous, ugly, straight, beautiful)

[wclac]

Originally Posted by miu

If you've never dated a white woman, I don't see how you can be so certain that you only want to date white women in the future.

You are nineteen years old at present.

Well, yes I'm certain. And you judging me by my age, I can't be mad at you because women sure like to judge young men, but in actuality, they don't know them.

[Ron.]

Ok, have you seen every black man display some sort a disagreement towards a white man/black women couple? NO you have not!

So knock off the generalization. Who cares about the double standard. Why are men judged based on their wealth? That's life, it's not fare. Deal with it!

Originally Posted by abrown17

I think the bigger question is: Why do black men who date white women get so mad when they see black women dating white men?

This double standard annoys me to no end. I have no problem with people dating and marrying whomever they want. Unfortunately, many black men want to sample all colors of the rainbow while still having a "harem" of black women to choose from in case things don't work out with the other races. The same black man with a white woman on his arm will have the nerve to eyeball a black woman for going outside her race.

"How dare she date that (insert non-black) man? Doesn't she know she' s supposed to be at home alone or fighting over me? The nerve of her trying to find happiness."

Black men feel like they are in "demand" and it has gone to their heads. They hate when black women date interracially because it shifts the balance of power and makes things more even.

Unfortunately, many black women play into this by having a misplaced sense of loyalty to black men. I love the brothas but this is pure selfishness and it has got to stop!

[abrown17]

Originally Posted by ChicagoRon

Ok, have you seen every black man display some sort a disagreement towards a white man/black women couple? NO you have not!

So knock off the generalization. Who cares about the double standard. Why are men judged based on their wealth? That's life, it's not fare. Deal with it!

Thank you so much for your helpful input.

[lestat357]

i dont believe in interracial dating and i think its funny when you see a white girl that only dates black guys...at least 75% of them act and dress and talk like they are black. im not racist i have black friends and i actually live on the westside of dayton ohio in the "ghetto" lol i especially hate when i post a personal ad that says looking for other white cpls or singles i get flagged or get black guys sending pics of their privates saying derogatory stuff about my gf would love what hes got and all that..its rude and ignorant

[millie61]

You just said that you live in the ghetto - well are these the only mixed couples you see ? we don't all live where you do. So please do not assume that all white women who date or marry black men want to be black. Have you ever thought that the reason these couples are together is because of that simple but often difficult thing called "LOVE"

[deerinheadlights]

Originally Posted by K-Luv

To a lot of people, no. Black Americans are some of the few people that hold the notion that if you have even a smidgeon of black in you, then you are black. To everyone else, you are a little bit of this, and a little bit of that; no big deal. Halle Berry and the Rock are two examples of black non-black people.

You know, the white/black couple, is predominately overwhelmingly a black man with a white woman. You will occasionally see a black woman with a white man, but that is really rare.

The black guys that I have known who dated white girls did so because the girl was attractive, while the ones who dated white girls exclusively did so because the girls were, well, subservient for the most part.

It's not Black Americans that said you're black. That came from white people. When they were trying to keep the white race "pure". It only took 1/8 of Black blood. That's off the subject, but just my two cents! The Rock is not black.

[goNsmWhere]

Originally Posted by abrown17

I think the bigger question is: Why do black men who date white women get so mad when they see black women dating white men?

This double standard annoys me to no end. I have no problem with people dating and marrying whomever they want. Unfortunately, many black men want to sample all colors of the rainbow while still having a "harem" of black women to choose from in case things don't work out with the other races. The same black man with a white woman on his arm will have the nerve to eyeball a black woman for going outside her race.

"How dare she date that (insert non-black) man? Doesn't she know she' s supposed to be at home alone or fighting over me? The nerve of her trying to find happiness."

Black men feel like they are in "demand" and it has gone to their heads. They hate when black women date interracially because it shifts the balance of power and makes things more even.

Unfortunately, many black women play into this by having a misplaced sense of loyalty to black men. I love the brothas but this is pure selfishness and it has got to stop!

Absolutely! I myself am a Blk woman and I have pretty much always dated Latinos and it never fails when we are in public that we get the "are you guys together?" question and we'll get really dirty looks, the worst of it from Black guys, and they're not quiet about it usually.

If a black guy wants to date a white woman, fine. If a black woman wants to date outside, fine. Its our own business

[Humboldt1]

I have to laugh at the poster who says they are not racist but they do not believe in interracial dating. Seriously, listen to yourself.

Deer,

The Rock is half black, half Samoan.

I have no problem with black men dating white women and actually have a very good friend who is married to a white lady and they have 2 wonderful children.

I also live in the ghetto, somewhat on the west side of Chicago and have seen the bad side of black ghetto culture, but there are certainly black guys out there I would have no problem with them dating my white sister.

[New-Mona]

Originally Posted by Humboldt1

I have to laugh at the poster who says they are not racist but they do not believe in interracial dating. Seriously, listen to yourself.

Deer,

The Rock is half black, half Samoan.

I have no problem with black men dating white women and actually have a very good friend who is married to a white lady and they have 2 wonderful children.

I also live in the ghetto, somewhat on the west side of Chicago and have seen the bad side of black ghetto culture, but there are certainly black guys out there I would have no problem with them dating my white sister.

Good post . I liked it a lot

[lebanonmom]

Most of my life, I dated white men, been married 3 times and been poisoned, strangeled, beat up. raped, shot at, lied to, and stabbed, by them! The last few months, I have been dating a black man and he treats me so kindly and is so sweet to me and I feel safe with him like I never felt (or was) with white men. The thing about " go black and you will never go back" has nothing to do with sex as has always been supposed, but has to do with the way they treat a woman! I have no interest in white men anymore. Unfortunately, there aren't very many black men in the area in which I live. We got a lot of "looks" but I dare anyone to say a word!! I dont live my life by what other ppl think or say as I have learned that many ppl are just totally ignorant! My Dad was married to a Phillipina the last 25 or so years of his life and next to his youngest daughter, she was the best thing that ever happened to him! Now my brother is married to a Thai (whom he met online). People really need to wake up and quit judging other by race! This past weekend, we went to the big "homecoming" celebration in Nicodemus, Kansas, which was the largest ex slave settelment in the country after the war and the families still come together there. It was awesome. The People were all so nice and it was such a happy celebration. I hope I can go again some day. And I always love all black churches, they know how to have church!!