Black men and white women (wives, girlfriends, single, younger)

[Glitterific]

Originally Posted by spotlight114

exactly, whats the point in arguing with him...one less knucklehead for black women to deal with....and for the record it appears that black women are coming across as the only ones who are angry to see interracial relationship when there seems to be just as many whites who dont approve...my husbands family said that he was just too lazy to go out and get himself a white girl. Please stop grouping us all in as angry black women..most of us dont care

ROUND OF APPLAUSE. I agree, not as many black women care as the media or society on the whole seem to think.

[Glitterific]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

As a caucasion woman, I have known black men who vehemently and fiercely love and stick by their black women. I have also known others who feel the complete opposite about black women and only date caucasion women. I have yet to meet a caucasion male who has such polar opposite feelings regarding caucasion women.

They are out there- trust me. They just are not as vocal about it.

To a women with a good amount of self worth, a man who says "I hate/cannot stand white women I only love black women" would make her run for the hills. If you like me or want to get to know me it shouldn't be because I am not white.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Glitterific

If you like me or want to get to know me it shouldn't be because I am not white.

Sounds like good logic.

[miu]

Originally Posted by Glitterific

They are out there- trust me. They just are not as vocal about it.

To a women with a good amount of self worth, a man who says "I hate/cannot stand white women I only love black women" would make her run for the hills. If you like me or want to get to know me it shouldn't be because I am not white.

Haha! I hear ya. As a Chinese woman, I get creeped out by non-Asians who profess to only love Asian women. A big yuck and get away from me and my yellow sisters!!!

[MeAndTheCity]

Originally Posted by DaSkorpion

Born in England and currently living in the US - I can say I have dated a whole lot of flavors and what stops me from dating my kind (black women) is somehow complex. Most of the black women I dated in England compared to the ones here in the US are totally different. I just got tired of the date your kind trend because the black women here in the US I had the chance to date were all the give me, give me type they cared less if they had any form of education or worked an 8-4 or 9-5 job all they wanted was for you to take care of them.

I believe love is not a one way street and if two people are in love one person is not meant to be a sucker.

My advice to the black women out there who keep bashing other races about stealing all the good black men is - stop sleeping with every one on your block, instead of having 6 or more different kids with different men learn to cook and clean, get an education, stop the I am a lesbian BS after you are done popping out like 10 kids saying men ain't S***, learn how to take good care of your man and in turn he will take good care of you and treat you like the queen or princess you are.

And lastly stop coming into relationships with your empty hands learn to bring something to the table - if you have decided not to work because you think its your man's right to take care of you then am sorry you need to go back to living with you mom and dad because your man is not your father.

Life is not all about how good you look when dressed or how tight your azz looks we can get sex anywhere if we want to so if you think a relationship is all about your milkshake then please I beg you to think it over again....from a black man who now dates out of his race..!!!


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LMAO So true..And I see them here in NY all the time on the Subways acting ghetto as hell.

[MeAndTheCity]

Originally Posted by Glitterific

They are out there- trust me. They just are not as vocal about it.

To a women with a good amount of self worth, a man who says "I hate/cannot stand white women I only love black women" would make her run for the hills. If you like me or want to get to know me it shouldn't be because I am not white.

IN NYC I have met 4 White guys who vehemently dislike White women. I mostly only date White men. Based on their experiences they said White girls are plain boring and slutty and they have no flavor. Plus they felt most of them were golddiggers. Mind you these were far from losers.. 2 investment bankers, 1 lawyer and 1 Venture capitalist.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by MeAndTheCity

IN NYC I have met 4 White guys who vehemently dislike White women. I mostly only date White men. Based on their experiences they said White girls are plain boring and slutty and they have no flavor. Plus they felt most of them were golddiggers. Mind you these were far from losers.. 2 investment bankers, 1 lawyer and 1 Venture capitalist.

There's gold diggers of all races.

[AONE]

I have no issue with someone dating anyone, who cares? if someone limits who they can date seems they may miss finding who they were meant to be with. That goes for those that won't date out of their race as well as those that are exclusive to it. For those that think black men are the only ones"gifted" then they have a surprise coming. There are many huge white men. Seems it should be based on something more than an attraction to an organ.

[deerinheadlights]

I'm a black female. I'm in my mid 30's. I haven't dated a black guy since I was 24.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by deerinheadlights

I'm a black female. I'm in my mid 30's. I haven't dated a black guy since I was 24.

Why woundn't you be dating black guys. If not why. I always thougt people kinda of wanted to be with someone that "looked"like them?? Life is too short