Black men and white women (dating, Asian, attracted, American)

[mom2justynsarah]

I know some black men that ONLY date white women (and vice versa). I can only speak for the woman's side because I have a very dear friend (caucasion) who will ONLY date BLACK men. She doesn't date white men period. She just finds black men to be incredibly sexy, funny and cool. She is not attracted or interested in white men.

Unfortunately, she is not welcome by many black women. In fact, they get royally pis** off at her. She is on some of the dating boards that are exclusive to black men. She has her picture there and gets a lot of negative email from black women to GET OUT!

When you see an interracial couple, does it bother you? How does it make you feel? Personally, I am the type that as long as you are happy with the person you are dating, then be with them.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

I know some black men that ONLY date white women (and vice versa). I can only speak for the woman's side because I have a very dear friend (caucasion) who will ONLY date BLACK men. She doesn't date white men period. She just finds black men to be incredibly sexy, funny and cool. She is not attracted or interested in white men.

I wonder about this saying "once you go Black, you never go back"... Was it coined by white women or black dudes?

[andreaspercheron]

I'm sure it was coined by black men. Only a man would be so arrogant LOL I'm KIDDING!!
I just think that you should date who you want to but know that even in todays society it's not accepted by many and that you can expect people to stare and talk and point. If you can get past that and have a successful relationship, then more power to you.
I am white, I have a white fiance, I did date briefly a couple of guys not of the caucasian background and still find myself attracted mostly to my caucasian male. I can see the attraction though. It's not my first choice and do not disagree with anyone who dates interracial. I don't think poorly of someone if they are going in that direction. I say to each his own!

[Humboldt1]

I was talking with my black neighbors and they were saying "When you go black, you can't never come back" to which I responded "When you go white, its aiight." They about soiled themselves.

Most of my female friends are hispanic. None of my Mexicans or Central or South American friends would even think of dating a black man. They are attracted to them physically but think they have most likely slept with too many women. Some of my Puerto Rican female friends would and have dated black men, which makes sense as many of them have African ancestors.

Let's face it, people are more likely to date people who look like themselves. I know there are exceptions but people generally date within their race.

[mlammons]

When I see an interracial couple I don't think about it any more than I do a couple where both people both white/black/asian etc. It's a non issue to me.

[Raggy dee Ann]

Originally Posted by Humboldt1

I was talking with my black neighbors and they were saying "When you go black, you can't never come back" to which I responded "When you go white, its aiight." They about soiled themselves.

Most of my female friends are hispanic. None of my Mexicans or Central or South American friends would even think of dating a black man. They are attracted to them physically but think they have most likely slept with too many women. Some of my Puerto Rican female friends would and have dated black men, which makes sense as many of them have African ancestors.

Let's face it, people are more likely to date people who look like themselves. I know there are exceptions but people generally date within their race.

For a rich white male banker you run with a rough ignorant crowd. Seriously.

Most of my female friends are hispanic. None of my Mexicans or Central or South American friends would even think of dating a black man. They are attracted to them physically but think they have most likely slept with too many women. Some of my Puerto Rican female friends would and have dated black men, which makes sense as many of them have African ancestors.

[arod0331]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

I know some black men that ONLY date white women (and vice versa). I can only speak for the woman's side because I have a very dear friend (caucasion) who will ONLY date BLACK men. She doesn't date white men period. She just finds black men to be incredibly sexy, funny and cool. She is not attracted or interested in white men.

Unfortunately, she is not welcome by many black women. In fact, they get royally pis** off at her. She is on some of the dating boards that are exclusive to black men. She has her picture there and gets a lot of negative email from black women to GET OUT!

When you see an interracial couple, does it bother you? How does it make you feel? Personally, I am the type that as long as you are happy with the person you are dating, then be with them.

Who are those women to tell her to get out? Has she contacted a moderator of that board about those women harassing her?
If your white friend wants to date black men, I say let her be. Different strokes for different folks.

[maaci]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

I know some black men that ONLY date white women (and vice versa). I can only speak for the woman's side because I have a very dear friend (caucasion) who will ONLY date BLACK men. She doesn't date white men period. She just finds black men to be incredibly sexy, funny and cool. She is not attracted or interested in white men.

Unfortunately, she is not welcome by many black women. In fact, they get royally pis** off at her. She is on some of the dating boards that are exclusive to black men. She has her picture there and gets a lot of negative email from black women to GET OUT!

When you see an interracial couple, does it bother you? How does it make you feel? Personally, I am the type that as long as you are happy with the person you are dating, then be with them.

I personally could care less.

[wclac]

Originally Posted by mom2justynsarah

I know some black men that ONLY date white women (and vice versa). I can only speak for the woman's side because I have a very dear friend (caucasion) who will ONLY date BLACK men. She doesn't date white men period. She just finds black men to be incredibly sexy, funny and cool. She is not attracted or interested in white men.

Unfortunately, she is not welcome by many black women. In fact, they get royally pis** off at her. She is on some of the dating boards that are exclusive to black men. She has her picture there and gets a lot of negative email from black women to GET OUT!

When you see an interracial couple, does it bother you? How does it make you feel? Personally, I am the type that as long as you are happy with the person you are dating, then be with them.

Oh yeah, that's my favorite combination! More power to her. When I see a black male/white female couple, I think nothing of it. All I can think is "Man, I want to be in that combination so bad". I seldomly date women who are my race.

Since I prefer to date interracially, I have an account on YouTube, some haters came on my page and left some really nasty hate mail, mostly from white men, black women, and some black men, making attempts to try and discourage me.

[andreaspercheron]

Even reading these posts, it's astonishing to me even today in these times that there is so much hate. People can be such jerks.