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Old 07-22-2008, 10:14 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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And to further what I posted in this same thread earlier, I think until you find that one person that you can love unconditionally, you really should keep looking. A lot of people get involved in relationships and say "he / she's perfect except for...." and I know for a fact that you can find a person that has all that you need, want and desire in a mate and you never find yourself sitting there wishing he had this or had that.
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Old 01-03-2009, 03:32 AM
 
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they can try.. but they may fail.. they cant help it.. u cant change a guy quickly .. itl tak time and dedication.. b prepared to b let down thou. i advise find a nouther guy.. cuz they might let u down.. he also has to want to change.. he has to b willin. and it will largerly depend on how greatly he likes u.. dont expect fast improvments thou. give it time.. take it slow
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Old 01-03-2009, 01:36 PM
 
Location: TwilightZone
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Only if the guy is whooped,otherwise ladies don't try to change us you'll be in for a surprise.
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:24 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Only if the guy is whooped,otherwise ladies don't try to change us you'll be in for a surprise.
I agree, Stuck. No more fixer-uppers for me! Hmm, on 2nd thought... I guess I just took a celibacy vow forever...
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:28 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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It is completly unfair and misguided to try to "change" some one (male or female) into what one WISHES they would be. You are who you are and you are either right for one another AS IS or you ain't. If you can't take some one at face value having a relationship is doomed to failure.
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:31 PM
 
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Yes, ask Lorena Bobbitt.

Right...
Still has high testosterone but no outlet. Is frustration a positive change?
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Philly
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Good thread.

As many mentioned, change comes from an inward motivation. An outside source can cause an inward feeling in a person and cause them to change, but it won't work otherwise.
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:41 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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No and they should not even try. if you don't like him for who he is get over it and move right along.
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Old 01-03-2009, 02:49 PM
 
Location: TwilightZone
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I agree, Stuck. No more fixer-uppers for me! Hmm, on 2nd thought... I guess I just took a celibacy vow forever...
There's always just dating...men have no prob with that
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Old 01-03-2009, 03:03 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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I agree, Stuck. No more fixer-uppers for me! Hmm, on 2nd thought... I guess I just took a celibacy vow forever...
lol how'd I miss this one. OUUUUUUCH!
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