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Old 07-25-2008, 01:42 PM
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Why are women so obsessed with making these gay jokes. They must be into homesexuality themselves.
OK, I'm done with this thread. I leave you with one ray of optimism: At least if your mother and father get a divorce, they'll still be brother and sister.
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Old 07-25-2008, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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Why are women so obsessed with making these gay jokes. They must be into homesexuality themselves.
No joke, Im serious. Your the one that said "maybe a good man is the answer"

And yes I am into homesexuality. If by that you mean sexuality at home.
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Old 07-25-2008, 01:50 PM
 
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No joke, Im serious. Your the one that said "maybe a good man is the answer"

And yes I am into homesexuality. If by that you mean sexuality at home.
Most of you failed to realize that I speak the truth. I like women, as long as they're the right match. I have several definitions of a good woman.
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Old 07-25-2008, 01:56 PM
 
Location: southern california
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human failings can be helpful instead of harmful, they are warning buoys identifying them early is a good thing. the only circumstances that can harm you is when you fail to recognize warning red flags and do not properly assess your trust level. in the words of a great contractor and friend.
huck some of my best friends are #######, its fine as long as i don't have to live with them.
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Old 07-25-2008, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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ok, i'm done with this thread. I leave you with one ray of optimism: At least if your mother and father get a divorce, they'll still be brother and sister.

Good one!
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Old 07-25-2008, 02:11 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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Well one thing's for certain - the fur sure is flying in this thread! Which is quite appropriate, since the OP is the same one who started a thread to complain about women who didn't like the Chewbacca look.
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:04 PM
 
Location: THEN: Paso Robles, Ca * NOW: Albuquerque, NM
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Yeah, this thread has taken off since last night!

Okay, back to OP: you asked how to determine whether women are gold diggers or not. Well, my advice to you is simply this: you need to have female FRIENDSHIPS. I get the impression from your posts you don't have many friendships (male or female). It's best to start learning about women through healthy friendships. Plus, friendships help us learn about male/female dynamics. As well, if you want to have a successful romantic relationship, you need to learn how to be transparent/open/genuine. One of the most non-threatening ways to do this is through female friendships. Also, be a people watcher. It's a good study of human nature and personality. If you learn how to observe and assess people, you can learn to spot red flags. Since you're in school (and referencing your time in high school), you should have learned about different people and personality characteristics. If you stay secluded and removed from the world, you will not be able to develop the necessary discernment and social skills to woo a woman and make lasting friendships.
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Old 07-25-2008, 04:04 PM
 
Location: SUNNY AZ
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um, prenump?
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Old 07-25-2008, 06:29 PM
 
Location: In a delirium
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When I hear about women being gold diggers, they make me want to resent them as a whole.
After having read some of your posts, it seems like you already do resent women as a whole. Know the word misogyny? Maybe some therapy will help.
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Old 07-26-2008, 01:04 AM
 
Location: Texas
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ha is that all women want, money? OMG no. my track record speaks for itself. i am a successful professional and make a very good living, and have been married several times, and i was the breadwinner in all of the marriages-my income being double or triple theirs.
i have put a stop to this, i will no longer support a man again, or allow one to take advantage of me financially, so i refuse to get involved with anyone who is not financially stable. do they have to be rich? no. if they are a police officer, with a stable job, making only 38K a year and they are very happy with their career, and are passionate about what they do, even though they are not rich, i would be accepting of that. but a man in my age bracket, in their fourties, should all be at this point in their lives..not making 8 bucks an hour or something, as long as they are able bodied and motivated
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