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This is one of the things I hate about dates; they are used by some as nothing more than 'countdowns' to when the man thinks he is either entitled to sex or to self-righteously walk away because he isn't getting what he wants. So on the first date he is up for it, but probably thinks his chances are limited. On the second date he thinks he will probably only have one more to get through and then he is home and dry. One wonders if he ever thinks of anything else on the date, although my guess is that the women he walks away from have had a lucky escape.
What sort of woman would want a relationship with someone who refers to her body as a "dangling carrot" anyway?
This is one of the things I hate about dates; they are used by some as nothing more than 'countdowns' to when the man thinks he is either entitled to sex or to self-righteously walk away because he isn't getting what he wants. So on the first date he is up for it, but probably thinks his chances are limited. On the second date he thinks he will probably only have one more to get through and then he is home and dry. One wonders if he ever thinks of anything else on the date, although my guess is that the women he walks away from have had a lucky escape.
What sort of woman would want a relationship with someone who refers to her body as a "dangling carrot" anyway?
Maybe you should date more passive nice guys... oh wait you hate them.
I used to be a God fearing Christian, but over time logic has always got the best of me.
The whole wait until your married thing is admirable, but sometimes you just have to try it out before you make that big leap. Sexual compatibility is VERY healthy to a relationship. Otherwise you could have some Kim Corpsedashian just lying there thinking you have to do all the work /NSFW.
Third date seems pretty standard, waiting way longer tells guys she's taking you for a ride. Here's a hint, alot of us guys don't like games like that. And that is why we move on. If were always paying for dates, giving you gifts, taking you places and still haven't hit home after a few months... you're wasting our time. Guys have our needs to, ironically there are women that just never understand such a simple concept. It's like seeing a return on an investment.
A suggestion is if you want to play the chastity card (and not play it after you just had your fill of other men for a long time, God I get tired of hearing that) let guys know off the bat, save us both the trouble.
Besides, women have already proven when they'll have sex the moment they are with a guy they want to do it with. Sometimes, no dating is involved.
I sometimes have sex on the first date, but more often it's the second or third date. If the other person isn't interested in having sex with me by the third date, I see there is no future in that relationship and I move on ... life is too short.
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