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Old 08-05-2008, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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wow, a whole lot of ladies out there are fooled if they think their husband doesnt oogle everywomen they see imagining theyre nekkid
Ha! That reminds me of a joke, when I tease my husband or point out certain women when we are out. Cracks me up because I rib him and he replies with his reasoning at glancing "I'm married, I'm not dead!".

To the OP: I wouldn't have a problem necessarily with the photo on the cell phone. Guys talk to their buddies all the time like that (i.e. better quality ones etc). That being said there may be some underlying trust/communication issues that you need to work out within yourself and him if this has become a big deal. It would be one thing if he is seeking out the photos for his phone/computer etc. Especially of a local girl/or friend. But some guys/friends do things like sending those pics to his phone. I hope that you two are able to work things out (whichever way things work out for you) and most of all you are able to communicate with one another. Not just listen, but actually hear what both of you are saying.
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:29 PM
 
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it was a nasty photo sent to her husband...hello....that has gotta suck for her..
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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it was a nasty photo sent to her husband...hello....that has gotta suck for her..
Yes. She has stated that. I think I (and some others?) were saying that they didn't think that was all that strange. However the communication between them is what matters. She asked for opinions and she's getting them.
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:40 PM
 
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lol i've never seen my dad get nude/nasty photos on his cell phone....not normal...

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Yes. She has stated that. I think I (and some others?) were saying that they didn't think that was all that strange. However the communication between them is what matters. She asked for opinions and she's getting them.
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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lol i've never seen my dad get nude/nasty photos on his cell phone....not normal...
Again...I said some. Not all. Not normal to you. We are not all the same and all have differing opinions on what is status quo for each of us.

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Old 08-05-2008, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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lol i've never seen my dad get nude/nasty photos on his cell phone....not normal...
In all fairness... my dad doesn't know what I do on a personal level, either! There are just some things that don't get shared with the family... And sometimes, the sex life / sense of humor / etc just doesn't get shared with the family members. Call me crazy.
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:55 PM
 
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ya my parents said that people that are like that are trashy and have very low standards .....

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Again...I said some. Not all. Not normal to you. We are not all the same and all have differing opinions on what is status quo for each of us.

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Old 08-05-2008, 01:57 PM
 
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and what is your point? I would be disgusted if one of my best friends had an obscene photo sent to his cell phone and I would be disgusted if he was showing it off....I wouldn't end the friendship but I would be very turned off ....it just would feel wrong....the wife in this situation probably feels worse...

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In all fairness... my dad doesn't know what I do on a personal level, either! There are just some things that don't get shared with the family... And sometimes, the sex life / sense of humor / etc just doesn't get shared with the family members. Call me crazy.
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Old 08-05-2008, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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ya my parents said that people that are like that are trashy and have very low standards .....
Not sure if that was a slam against my for me opinions, but thanks!
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Old 08-05-2008, 02:03 PM
 
Location: New Hampsha
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i think the OP should send her husband some nasty photos of herself
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