I cheated on him...and I don't know why?

[Alisonann15]

Originally Posted by Ivorytickler

I would suggest you find a good counselor and find out why you undermine your own happiness.

By any chance were your parents divorced? Mine were and I have had a hard time seeing myself as lovable as a result.

yes my parents were divorced...when I was 13

[Alisonann15]

Very interesting advise everyone is giving....further details include...that I am 27, have had one other serious relationship and I cheated then to. I only cheat when I am drinking. The SO is 30, has been married before. His ex also left him, but for other reasons. My parents are divorced. His mom has been married 4 times. Besides my cheating...neither of us sees any faults in our relationship. He is not willing to have an open relationship...and realistically that is not something I want either.

[Capt. Cave Man]

Originally Posted by Alisonann15

Very interesting advise everyone is giving....further details include...that I am 27, have had one other serious relationship and I cheated then to. I only cheat when I am drinking. The SO is 30, has been married before. His ex also left him, but for other reasons. My parents are divorced. His mom has been married 4 times. Besides my cheating...neither of us sees any faults in our relationship. He is not willing to have an open relationship...and realistically that is not something I want either.

If you don't want an open relationship, then why do you have one? Drink'n isn't the problem, I've been drunk my share and I've had the chance to cheat, I didn't cause I RESPECTED the one I was with.

It's not the booze, not your parents, it's you lack of respect for your bf.....and his lack of respect for himself or he'd have given you the boot a long time ago.

27!?! I guessed you to be 18 or so.

[booker_one]

27!?! I guessed you to be 18 or so.

me too. that makes her even worst. some people never learn...and i think she is probably one of them.