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I was mainly referring to guys who come up to you (come up to a lesbian couple, I mean) in a lesbian bar and make propositions or requests of that nature. I don't care what anyone has inside their head, I've only had issues with the verbalizing of their fantasies accompanied by invitations, requests, etc. that was uninvited.
Maybe you don't know your gay friends well. Do they sleep around a lot? Talk behind your back? Start drama in a covert way? How would you know all those intimate details unless you survey your friends.....you are very pollyanna-ish.
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I live with a pretty, very happy, generous lesbian. I'm a happy (for the most part) gay man. My lesbian roommate likes Doris Day movies and musical theater and she is terrified of anything "home improvement". I dislike most musical theater, am the one who does most of the Mr. Fixit stuff in the house and I have zero fashion sense (I'm a surfer...T-shirts, board shorts, and Pucca shells all the way!). Much of friend base who are gay/lesbian don't fit any of the stereotypes either.
Maybe the chic in your story is pissed off because she knows you think she's a lesbian, but she isn't and is tired of people lableing her ?
That isn't what I've experienced. I've experienced lesbians as being selectively rude and snide for no clear reason. They pick their target and act catty and rejecting for no good or clear reason. It is stupid behavior and it is prejudice and hatred plain and simple. Only pollyannaish people cannot see the reality of matters.
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I was mainly referring to guys who come up to you (come up to a lesbian couple, I mean) in a lesbian bar and make propositions or requests of that nature. I don't care what anyone has inside their head, I've only had issues with the verbalizing of their fantasies accompanied by invitations, requests, etc. that was uninvited.
you are obviously not in tune with the majority of the male population. joe francis makes millions off of girl on girl action in his Girls gone wild videos. guys eat that stuff up. most guys DO get off on chics digging into eachother. of course if its rosie odonnell its a different story. my friends talk about that all the time. they have clips of certain movies like bound or the one with denise richards and neve campbell. they are really into that stuff.
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Actually, it is most people. The idea of watching two water balloons fighting for eachother's tie-off just doesn't ring the bell for the average guy or girl... unless they're really bored.
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I was mainly referring to guys who come up to you (come up to a lesbian couple, I mean) in a lesbian bar and make propositions or requests of that nature. I don't care what anyone has inside their head, I've only had issues with the verbalizing of their fantasies accompanied by invitations, requests, etc. that was uninvited.
Oh, I'm sorry. No, that would be very inappropriate (IMO).
That isn't what I've experienced. I've experienced lesbians as being selectively rude and snide for no clear reason. They pick their target and act catty and rejecting for no good or clear reason. It is stupid behavior and it is prejudice and hatred plain and simple. Only pollyannaish people cannot see the reality of matters.
Well, experiences are what they are.... but when I read your post, I thought about replacing the word "lesbian" with the word WOMEN... and that is what I have experienced! I have been betrayed, lied to, hurt more by straight women/ friends/family than anyone else. Women acting like that, me thinking that's "how they all are"....that's probably why I took so long to come out!
As well as many gay men.... but like I said, I've known enough awesome gay guys who don't fit the stereotypes to balance it all out... and with women, well, as I get older and broaden my horizons I meet women who negate the stereotypes as well. Lesbian or otherwise.
you are obviously not in tune with the majority of the male population. joe francis makes millions off of girl on girl action in his Girls gone wild videos. guys eat that stuff up. most guys DO get off on chics digging into eachother. of course if its rosie odonnell its a different story. my friends talk about that all the time. they have clips of certain movies like bound or the one with denise richards and neve campbell. they are really into that stuff.
Yeah, I guess being a man disqualifies me from those who only thoerize and are the true experts.
No, most guys do not. I suggest you look at the demographics for porn sales, by type. You will find a small percentage of guys spend alot on porn, not most guys spending a little.
Agreed, Rosie O'Donnell exposed would get a similar audience to Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom special on the mating of walruses... at least from male buyers!
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